how do i get my girl to feel the same as me?

Question

i want to be the most important thing in her life like she is to me...what should i do? am i being selfish? i dont want any other girl but her..EVER!! so how do i get her to be completely in love with me..so the feelings between us are mutual?

Answer 1

First of all you can't make someone feel the same way you feel and you can't make someone love you. Some people develop their feelings at a different pace. I dont think your selfish you just want to know. If you have been with this person for months give it time if it has been years and you have no clue how this person feels its time to ask. You never know she could be feeling the same way the only way to know is to ask rather than to assume she doesn't feel the same way. Its worth the risk.

Answer 2

Forced feelings are NOT what you really want. When you push somebody to love you as strong as you love them, they do one of two things: RUN LIKE HELL, or pretend to fell the same as you until they've had all they can take. If the girl knows how you feel, leave the rest up to her. If you are tired of waiting around, then consider moving on and finding someone who will appreciate that much passion.

Answer 3

You can't make someone love as much as you would like to. Just treat her the way she deserves to be treated, and she will return the favor. Maybe she is your soul mate, maybe she's not. If it doesn't work out for you guys then it wasn't meant to be anyways.

Answer 4

I know how you feel....I have been down that road before. Sometimes you want all the time they have devoted to you but maybe she is in love with you and just doesn't know how to express it.

Answer 5

You can't make someone feel a certain way. She has to fall in love with you herself.