Whever someone asks what i wanna do or something like that i just say it doesnt matter to me cuz i dont wanna pick the wrong thing or sound high maintainance or anything. Suggestions??
2006-11-25 12:05:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If there's one thing i find most annoying about people it's when they can't make up their own mind about things. If people say 'it doesn't matter' then they tend to find they'll get trood upon their whole lives. It's not brattish to have an opinion for goodness sake. What would be brattish is for you to give your opinion and then want everyone else to go with it, instead of being happy to give and take sometimes. If all your mates want to go to the pub but you'd rather go the cinems, say " hey I'd prefer the cinema this week but if everyone else fancies the pub, I'm happy to go along with that." Hopefully sometimes you sometimes get to do the stuff you want to too. nIt's all about knowing who you are and knowing what you want but being happy to compromise. Good luck!
2006-11-25 12:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter, if you don't make a suggestion, the other person will make a decision, and you might end up doing something you really don't want to. Making a suggestion is not a commitment, it is an idea, a starting place for a discussion. It may well be that the other person, will like what you suggest and do it. Give it a try.
2006-11-25 20:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't like wishy-washy. State your preferences and then discuss the options before coming to a compromise or conclusion. That's much more mature and shows strength of character.
2006-11-25 20:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋