Why, is it the HOLIDAYS or do you always feel like this?
2006-11-25 11:44:44 · 19 answers · asked by anonbealove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes...and yeah the holidays do make it worse cause you see couples ice skating and walking through the park keeping each other warm and holding hands..the hell with them lol j/k
2006-11-25 11:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between lonely and being alone.
Lonely is feeling as if you've been abandoned and need someone to be with you.
Being alone is sometimes by choice and some people can manage it quite well.
Not having a life partner doesn't mean you have to be alone. You can develop friendships, join groups for hobbies or common interests, you could spend time with family, or volunteer where there are people who need help,....seniors, handicap,hospital,soup kitchen etc.
Being alone is a choice therefore being lonely is a choice as well. Do you choose to allow the single life get you down, or get you going?
But the holidays do shout it loud and clear if you are a single and there are couples and families everywhere you turn.
2006-11-25 19:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! YES! Life sucks on so many levels right now. It's been a LONG time since I felt this lonely before, despite being with my Uncle and his family... I guess I'm just disconnected. So to answer your questions, it's probably the holidays, I'm normally fine back at school.
2006-11-25 19:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm lonely most of the time, but the holidays do seem to intensify the feeling. Guess I should be used to it by now, right?
2006-11-25 19:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its the Holidays. Im lonely.. and sad..
=( My best friend and I are not in good terms.. i mean.. we are civil to each other ( i guess ) but i still wanted the old friendship that we had back...
Christmas =( this will be the 3rd xmas without my best friend..
i sure do miss her already...
2006-11-25 20:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because i know that IF i ever get lonely that i always my family to be right there for me.
2006-11-25 19:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Both, the holidays make it worse.
And this past year in particular has sucked for me in terms of both online and offline friends sticking around....
Ah well....what can you do? I guess people really do find me too annoying for words, or something.
2006-11-25 20:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not the holidays in canada...but it is always lonely and cold here
2006-11-25 20:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no im not, eventhough there is no one here at home right now but me!!! i enjoy my alone time, but i do have an open mind so i know what you are speaking of~ are you lonely right now?? well im here so feel free to contact me!!!
2006-11-25 19:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I'm willing to pay for some "alone time," but I don't see it coming anytime soon.
2006-11-25 19:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋