I had to call it quits. I still love him deeply, but he has an ongoing drug thing. I do not do drugs and I have very little tolerance for them. But with him, because I love him so much, I have forgivin him time and again. But for my own sanity-and dignity- I had to let him go. It hurts, not just emotionally, but it feels like a physical pain also. I want to get past this. Should I find someone else? Should I just sit in pain for awhile? Help.
2006-11-25 11:22:53 · 4 answers · asked by Carol 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like my sister. Okay what you need to do is GET AWAY. So you need to isolate yourself from him, which means: NO MORE TALKING, whether it be on in person, phone, or internet. Basically avoid him at all costs, most likely he will try to bother you (since he does have a drug problem and you support it in some way whether you know it or not). If he succeds in seeing you tell him plain out I don't want to see you anymore. I know it's heart-breaking but it's the only way to help him too. If it gets serious (he wont leave you alone), you might need to get a restraining order. Good luck!
2006-11-25 11:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nick T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely leave your drug addicted boyfriend for your own safety. There is a book called "how to fall out of love" go read it, in three weeks you will feel good about your self and the decision you made.
2006-11-25 19:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of everything that reminds u of him or her, surround yourself with friends, and focus on anything other than how to get over a break up with a guy u probably wont get over for a few weeks.
2006-11-25 19:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by idontknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get another girlfriend. Oh i mean boyfriend.
2006-11-25 19:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋