he says he loves me
then he says he doesnt
he says he likes me more than his date
then he asks her to be in a relationship (right after ONE date), RIGHT after he finds out that i got in one
he tells me he doesn't have time for me anymore bc his new girlfriend
then when i agree that we should stop seeing eachother, he wants to see me fri
he doesn't contact me at all when i don't contact him, but then puts a post up that he's suddenly depressed (after i stop seeing him).he never does this
then i have dinner with him and he says he missed me sooo much and give me a fierce hug, can't stop staring, and afterwards, we hang out with a mutual friend. during this time, he calls me every former petname he can muster, and asks "remember when [insert memory from past relationship]?" making the 3rd party feel awkward/left out
then i send him a heartfelt letter telling him my feelings and asking him straight out to tell me his
he never answers
he calls after 2 days
i call back
no response for 4 days
2006-11-25 11:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by n0ir_c 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How do you think it would be to have a yo-yo as a bf? That's what you have. He may eventually grow up but looks as though he needs to manipulate someone and you're it. Are you getting anything at all out of this?
2006-11-25 11:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're wasting your time.In fact if you read your own letter,it's you who makes all the moves(first)and he reluctantly responds Then you drift apart,till YOU make contact again Now you're waiting on him replying to you're letter.Find soeone else who will appreciate youThis guy is'nt for you.Forget him
2006-11-25 11:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait on him - go out and have fun with friends and maybe find someone who is more mature and more reliable.
sounds like he only wants on thing and when he gets or does not get that "thing" then you are out of sight/out of mind.
The way he is; you can never believe what he says to you.
2006-11-25 11:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's totally playing mind games with you.
Drop him like a hot potatoe before you get into something you'll regret and he breaks your heart.
2006-11-25 11:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you, and is scared of losing you. He's not sure what to do, and is scared he'll do something wrong.
2006-11-25 11:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nick T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋