I know what I did was wrong, and I told him last weekend he needed to make a decision because I was not going to do this anymore. I married very young and fell for this older guy later in life. Why would he not be looking out for my best interest he is my boss?He said he is not in love with his wife and made a mistake by marrying her. I cant get him out of my head, what to do?
2006-11-25 11:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He told me he is getting an attorney, he is making progress. He has never cheated before this was the first time, I have never cheated at all. I felt a connection with him so strong I had to follow my heart, he feels the same way, he is just in a bad spot right now
2006-11-25 11:22:33 · update #1
No one in life has the right to tell who loves who...Yes you were wrong and consequently you may be the cause of marriage breaking up. If he going to leave his wife it should be because he wants to not because to somewhat gave him an ultimatum. He just might be telling you this to string you along. Why a married man there are plenty of single men out there. Think about it "Do you really want to destroy peoples lives for your own gain"?
2006-11-25 11:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by inquistive275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have placed yourself in an awful position.Yes your boss is a jerk but still. Perceptoin means all at work... you have screwed the pooch on that. Even if you looked him in the eye and said that you would appreciate a call before he comes over, say your wife is hassling you because she does not like not being able to plan ahead, turned and walked away, said anything the perception is still there. I pass no judgement.. I just know what I have seen in life. Usually the way it goes is that the wife leaves at some point leaves her husband for another that loves her and her alone. 28 is fun time but as women get older they change. She says no kids now but that may change. She leaves law school and you will no longer be necessary as again she will want a guy who just loves her. In most cases that is inevitable. She will want a grownup. This other girl may choose to move on. So now you have hurt feelings all around. You may choose to end it all but then your wife might get pissed. Congrats. You have set yourself up to screw your career and marriage. You are already see ing the fallout. Enjoy it now because I would bet that in a couple of years you get a divorce, she will get part of your money and you will be alone. Again I say nothing about morals or anything.... just cold truth.
2016-05-23 02:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is highly unlikely that he will leave his wife for you. If he does there can always be someone younger who comes along to replace you. Of course if you can keep things new and interesting for him you may be able to get past that if he does opt to leave her. Unfortunately in all probability you would also become complacent and therefore be replaced.
2006-11-25 11:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you for his pleasure, and won't leave his wife for you. ( at the end of the day people prefer their dignity to short-lasting emotional games)
2006-11-25 11:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was unfaithful to his wife, he will be to you, too.
Find another boyfriend!
2006-11-25 11:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes through with the divorce then you have him...
For better or worse...
2006-11-25 12:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd quit the job....
2006-11-25 11:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋