I have 2 kids.1 f/ my 1st who took 4yrs to conceive. 2nd by my ex- it took 10mths. Now I'm back w/ my 1st & its been 4 1/2 yrs of trying to conceive we are unsuccessful. Is there a problem? him? me?
2006-11-25 11:02:25 · 14 answers · asked by Kadija T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i think from him not from u
2006-11-25 11:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a fertility specialist and have some test run. It took my husband and me 3 years with the help of doctors. It could be that your cycle is off or there's something else wrong. If it's his sperm count. The can do sperm wash which eliminates the slower sperm and they put it in you through a procedure called IUI. Good luck
2006-11-25 12:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by dcarroll28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could be both or neither. I had trouble too but it boiled down to stress. I was under stress because I was trying so hard that I had it written down on a paper when we were to have sex. Just enjoy the process and I had to stop drinking so much caffeine and stop eating chocolate. Try to cut back on those things and stop stressing. My ovulation was messed up. it was suppose to be 14-18 and mine was 3. My dr gave me a small dose of Clomid and I had twins. I only took pills one month. Good luck
2006-11-25 11:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by dee4rad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok here is how it goes i can not be 100 % on this but iam pretty sure that it is 1/2 and 1/2 or an age difference or maybe it could be some kind of internal problem the best thing to do is see your gyno they help better..
also get checked for HPV cancer its very common.
2006-11-25 11:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by coby_suger_mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to want to conceive and it feels like no matter how hard to seem to try it still doesn't work. My husband and I are trying to conceive and we have been trying for about 3yrs now and nothing. You may just be one of those women who are not very fertile. My suggestion is to consult your gyn. and more than likely they will run some test on you and him. Try not to concentrate on it too much. They say when you try to hard it never happens believe me I know how you feel.
2006-11-25 11:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by inquistive275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 4 1/2 years you should be consulting a doctor.
Oh, and get married.
2006-11-25 11:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comparing the two men and the lengths of time it took you to concieve it's with the men, have him get a sperm count it's cheaper and it would let you know where you are ferility wise. weight diet and tight clothing and prostate problems along with diabetes, high chlestrol, high blood pressure can be the cause of a low sperm count and various other sex problems that men have. your man that you are with you now needs a physical and sperm count.. hint around for it. it is cheaper for men to be diagnosed and treated then it is for women, and the problem seems to be him any way. the time frames show it..
2006-11-25 11:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mary S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
were you on the shot? sometimes it takes as long as you have been on it the same amount of time off before you can conceive. don't blame him or yourself. go to a doctor who can give you facts. examples/ low sperm count or maybe your not producing eggs or wrong timing on and on.
2006-11-25 11:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor, ask to get a referral to a fertility clinic, I'm sure they can get you figured out. Good luck. :)
2006-11-25 11:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by blayk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like he doesn't produce enough nut. Make sure he orgasms in you hard and do a headstand for 30 min. after sex, it might help.
2006-11-25 11:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would we know? See a doctor. Both of you.
2006-11-25 11:04:24 · answer #11 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋