2006-11-25 10:58:43 · 35 answers · asked by carolina p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take him to court for child support and yes you are going to be involed in this man and his wife for 18 years and make the best out of it. Make sure you get sole custody, since he did make sure that you were just the score to get sex and no relationship, he can alos try to get your child. Men are out to get one thing and that is sex,and he does not care about the factors of your feelings or respect. If women just say no, and stop making it so easy for men to robbed us from our bodies and etc. We wil get more respect then we got. Unfortunately to many women are not using thier brains, and keeping the legs close and just say and mean NO! You were used, just like so many other women. Don't make it easy for a man to use you just for sex!
2006-11-25 11:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compleate ****, if you havnt already, go and get child support.
Does he see your child? if he doesnt he is a cowardly excuse of a man.
Look at it like this, you should be glad that you are out of a relationship with a man who can do this sort of thing, imagine what kind of morals he would have taught your child if he had stayed. You and your child dont need messed up f,uck like him.
Also, the door is now open for a wonderfull man who will love you and love your child the way you deserve, just make sure you pick carefully next time, because now there is a child involved.
Good luck hun.
2006-11-25 11:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are the cards that life has given you... if u waste your time looking at what was you'll waste away.
Time to pick yourself up, don't look back and make your own way in the world with what you have. You'll never get him back and even if you try he'll still walk all over you.
2day is the 1st day of the rest of your life, do something constructive with it rather than looking at what didn't work in the past or you'll end up destroying yrself
tk care
2006-11-25 11:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jembo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for child support and sole custody and thank the woman he married for taking your garbage....she probably did you a favor. You are better off w/o him. Being pregnant doesn't mean you have to get married but he could have at least stayed and taken care of his responsibilities
2006-11-25 17:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by juicydiva21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has saved you waisting any more time no him..look forward now, not in the past, you have been given a second chance to find the right man to be the real Dad of your child.Many men father a child,Few are brave enough to be a Dad. Choose wisely!
2006-11-25 11:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by cheese 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is a jerk. He doesn't love you. Its not the end of the world. I am sure it feels like it right now. Believe me, you will get over it. It just takes time. I can imagine how horrible it must feel to be alone but time heals all wounds. Its true. Be strong and take care of your business. Family is a great source of help. Look to your friends and family to help you through it. Take care of yourself emotionally, physically, and economically. A year from now you will be much better. Good luck.
2006-11-25 11:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get child support payments, he sounds like a shmuck, I feel sorry for the pathetic fool of a woman that would marry and procreate with a man of that character, a man that would leave a pregnant woman. You are lucky to not have to be with such a lowlife!
2006-11-25 11:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the down sides of living with someone before marriage is that too often if the woman gets pregnant, the guy bolts! My opinion is that whoever got him didn't get much of a prize and that you are better off without him.
2006-11-25 11:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want to become pregnant, you should have prevented it. We, as women can now choose to prevent a pregnancy, unlike 200 years ago, when nothing really worked. This is your mistake, sweetie. Planning is important. "What do they call people who do not use birth control?" Parents. In this case, since it was preventable, perhaps you were trying to trap him????..... he saw the trap, and left!!!!!... not at all unusual. Did you discuss the fact that you wanted to become pregnant???... (Oh, yes, hon, you wanted to become pregnant.... to do nothing in the area of prevention , is to become pregnant). Don't blame him, blame yourself. Now do the best you can for the child you did not plan for and who did not ask to be born. Sorry.... no sympathy for you here, but lots for your kid...
2006-11-25 11:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It hurts right now...but it won't last believe me. You have to get on with your life starting with you and your child. The same thing happened to me thirteen years ago. I went to court to get sole custody and child support. This will work out for you. Believe in yourself.
Good Luck in your life!!
2006-11-25 11:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Prissie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋