My guy still cant get over with my past with ex-s, even i don't see my ex-s a lot but its still bothering him like a hell, what can I do?? Even i told him i have moved on and never thought about his past with exs too, but it doesnt work for him. It s making me to push him away if he brings up about my past. Im so tired of arguing with him about that craps. U know what i mean?..
2006-11-25 10:41:49 · 21 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women are actully worse than men in this category....
2006-11-27 07:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Juliette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having had sick toddlers AND sick spouses, there is incredible similarities. possibly this is because of the fact we learn, as women, early on in llife with the aid of watching how mom does issues, that there isn't lots time for women to be sick. usually happens that once mom's sick, there continues to be dishes, laundry, human beings to get out the door, even paid artwork to do regardless of the ailment. maximum men do not learn that area. They bear in ideas while they have been little - you got sick, mom made you a mattress on the settee and gave you a bell so which you may get something you wanted from her once you wanted it. they did not see the facet the place mom is sick yet nonetheless up and approximately issues. so because it somewhat is my conjecture on it. call and have soup extra- not with the aid of lady pal- take a warm bathtub and sleep, Jack. you will experience greater advantageous after. Oh, and do not forget the tylenol for the fever.
2016-10-13 02:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
zoom out and look at the big picture for a moment here. he knows that you've been with other men. whether it's one or 100, you've had prior experience. your guy knows that you have a standard to compare him to now, mainly in the bedroom. he's pressured to make you feel like he's the best you've ever had, yet he's too proud to come out and ask you where he rates compared to the other guys. women can take these things in stride, much better than men can, since there's so much hype out there about "big" being better, etc., when all they have to realize is that if it's big enough, then woo hoo! no worries! hope this helped ya kid. good luck!
2006-11-25 10:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its useful and good to talk about them, just to improve on the past and not make the same mistakes.
He is probably insecure and thinking that you like the past guys better than him. Of course SOME things wit some of them was better. Especially if ya'll are middle aged.
2006-11-25 10:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u said u dont see your ex-s a lot then you should probably not see them at all and he probably doesnt trust you enough or he's insecure just give him time after you talk to him and tell him ur getting tired of all of that and that you will not talk or hear anything about your ex's if you do then you dont want to be with him because theres no trust.
2006-11-25 11:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethings u have 2 keep 2 yrslf & yr past is 1 of those things. a lot of people can't handle the past so it's best 2 leave it where it is n the past. the best thing u could do is not 2 react. ignore his comments eventually he will stop talking about it when he sees it doesn't affect u
2006-11-25 10:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because women always use past experiences in their current relationships. like mine, i have to suffer sexually for the past mistakes of all her other exe's cheating on me. quite frankly, if she acted in the same manner with them as she does with me, i can understand, but back to ur question. if a woman could forget about her past and just focus in the future then a man would not obcess about the ex's
2006-11-25 10:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its somewhat evolutionary for a guy to care, since a male who pairs up with a female who is already pregnant will spend his time and resources helping some other male's genes survive.
He sounds insecure on top of that.
2006-11-25 10:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing your ex-s...how would you feel if he was seeing an ex, it makes people uncomfortable especially when you were intimate with the ex at one point. The past is the future.
2006-11-25 10:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by tC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the low down....guys will nail anything with a heartbeat ! lol you know who you are ....ok anyhow..its hard for a guy when he gets serious about a women...when he starts thinking he realy, realy does like this girl...well now the thought of another man being with her makes him crazy. was he better than me in bed?...did he make you laugh more than i do?...is he more of a man than i am?..does he make more money...a better mechanic...ect.. face it guys are shallow..but it hurts to know that the one you care about might still care for someone else...there isn't a guy in this world that can argue that. and if they do...they are flat out lying and ego has taken over
2006-11-25 10:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by dave v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want to know about ex's because they are insecure. They think the ex may have been a better lover.
2006-11-25 10:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋