i have this guy friend and i think i have feelings for him but i dont want 2 tell him or anyone cuz i dont wanna ruin our awesome frienship
2006-11-25 10:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by Caitlin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you dont ask him out, you will always wonder "What if..." What if he likes you too but is too shy? What if hes "the one?"
I understand about not wanting to ruin a friendship, but if you 2 are TRUE friends, you will last. =)
Take a chance and Im sure everything will work out for the best. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 10:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases it won't ruin a friendship. My best friend and I have been best friends since the 6th grade, and one day about 9 years ago he told me he had feelings for me. But i had to tell him that i just didn't feel the same, he was my best friend and i diodn't wanna lose that! To this day we are best friends.
Although another great friend that I had, him and I dated and it has ruined our friendship, i would still want to be friends but he has let his new girlfriend get in the way of that. I am still really good friends with the family and always spend at least one holiday with them, Thanksgiving or X-mas. It just makes it really hard because i cannot even talk to him when the new chick is around!
Good luck i hope everything is okay, and i would leave it where its at if I were you, wouldn't you rather have him as a friend than not at all??
2006-11-25 10:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends was in a situation like this. She really really lliked one of our best guy friends. She never told him and to this day she regrets it because he moved like 8 states away. I would tell him. If he feels the same way great!! If not ask if you guys can still be friends. You may not have the same relationship for a while but eventually you'll be best friends again!
2006-11-25 10:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by broscious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont absolutely know your in love with him dont say a thing. dont say a thing until your positive you cant be "just friends" without having a deep desire for him. If you just "kinda like" him.. keep it to yourself. You would hate yourself if you change your mond and your friendship with this guy is ruined! good luck
2006-11-25 10:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just answered one similar to this, if hes your best friend he wont leave you. try flirting alittle more than usual. laugh at all his jokes even if they are not funny touch his leg when he says something funny you know so he can get the hint that you like him more than a friend, if he doesnt get it tell his friends oyu like him they will tell him and maybe he will have the same feeling torwards you
2006-11-25 10:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by tyraroxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wouldn't.
i had a great friend [guy]
my friends hooked us up. we went out for 6 months.
we just broke up.
now we never talk.
i miss him. would rather still be friends and have the relationship i had
than be together and not.
2006-11-25 10:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♠Dino♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya never know till ya try...grandma always says that but that rarely happens.cause all you need to do is start a conversation and you will stay friends
2006-11-25 10:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by mischa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest if he's a good friend he'll understand
2006-11-25 10:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will change your relationship. If you're prepared for that and you're sure that it will work out...Go For It!!
2006-11-25 10:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by lilnell_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋