My friend Daisy alwayz trys to start fights.We alwayz got back together, but i always had to appoligize. --> im tired of alwayz taking the blame for the fight. But then, last week had another fight, and she called me curse words and she called me and my friends Geaks. Then, last night. in an yahoo IM , she asked me to be her friend again, i cant tell if she really wants to be my friend or if shes trying to play me. Im only wondering this because she never apooligized before, or wanted to be my friend again....
2006-11-25 09:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by shannon. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Today, she sent me an e-mail saying " Im so so so sorry! Plz be my friend again" . I took all your advise and said Nope. But, for some reasons , i still am thinking about if i should correct the nope for a maybe...
2006-11-25 10:04:21 · update #1
Ha no...
Not until her act is cleaned up, I say that you tell her to be nicer, and not be such a brat, and maybe you will hang out with her. It's kinda funny, because after the fight, have you noticed that she came crying back to you, to be friends again?
There's your ticket, tell her to wise up or you won't hang out with her!
Good luck sweetie! ♥
2006-11-25 09:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. You must know that the chances she'll put you through the wringer again are terribly, terribly high if you let her back into your life. We teach people how to treat us and she's been taught to jerk your chain and you'll come back for more. If you need her as a friend, do her a favor and say "NO MORE" and then stick to your guns.
2006-11-25 09:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to apologize as she is the one at fault. If she doesn't, ignore her for now until she feels guilty of what she has done since she wants to be your friend again. Hopefully by then she will learn the bitterness of losing a friend :)
2006-11-25 09:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by sun2001hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you some thin for get that girl u got friends tell her that u don't want 2 be her friend eny more cause every time u guys bcome friends u always have a fight
2006-11-25 11:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 13:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a terrible friend. a similar thing happened to me. i think, if ppl do something once theres a chance they'll do it again. don't be her friend again.
2006-11-25 09:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by peachjam92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oy if you both keep breaking up then obviously your not BFFL..... move on without her...... like you said your not sure meaning your having a bad feeling about her..... go with your gut instances always.
2006-11-25 09:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur so called BFFL curses u an disreapects ur friend then she's not ur friend. 4get bout her. u'll get a new bff and if she ask tell her exactly wat she does 2 u, how it makes u feel and leave it like dat. if she's upset dat's her prob
2006-11-25 09:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all childish to me, get a new friend bc she plays too many games
2006-11-25 09:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hang with her anymore if she's always calling you and your other friends names? just don't hang w/ her.
2006-11-25 09:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Writer Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋