i've been friends with this girl for a few months now. but we got into a serious fight and now she doesn't seem to want to speak or see me again. i know i need to giv her space and time but she has sumthin that will determine my future. how can i prevent an awkward moment with her while she works out wat she wants. it's been 3 days since our fight, and i need my things in a week. i value our friendship very much and would like to be able to work things out but i don't want to pressure her to see me again bcos of my situation. i want that to happen in her own terms.
since i am best friends with her cousin, should i let him get it for me? altho i'm thinkin this wud just make things even more awkward.
i'm stuck... plz help me. i don't know wat to do. it's either our friendship or my future for now... but i want to balance it out. i don't want to lose a friend, but don't want to screw myslef either.
any advice?
2006-11-25 09:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by chaden k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i've tried callin her and emailing her, she just won't pick up or reply...
2006-11-25 09:53:22 · update #1
what is "it"?
2006-11-25 09:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has an email then do just that. But if not call her on the phone and say why your sorry if you started the fight
2006-11-25 18:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by William C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has an email then do just that. But if not call her on the phone and say why your sorry if you started the fight.
2006-11-25 17:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by srhwhtny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try leaving her a message like -im real sorry about our fight and i really value our friendship(like you say) and i dont want to get in your face or pressure you but i really need this stuff so am sending your cousin over to get it so as not to crowd you but you have my number so id really like it if youd stay in touch.
cos thats reasonable right? its not like you are being horrible and it gets your point accross that you do like and value her.good luck
2006-11-25 17:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by darkling 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her you want your stuff. Dames hate a weakling.
2006-11-25 17:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋