He's very conserative and I'm not sure he'd want to be with me if he knew.I've been hinting around the subject but he seems against it.What should I do?
2006-11-25 09:23:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
let me add that I would want to involve another female into want we have once in a while.I don't cheat and will not put up with one either.
2006-11-25 09:33:22 · update #1
go out drinkin n just let it out
2006-11-25 09:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by nessa.baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to tell a straight man that you are bi-sexual unless you are the kind of person who thinks being bi-sexual gives you the green light to cheat on your mate with another sex and not be responsible for your actions. You should either stick to one or the other, but if you are involved with lesbians later on down the road, well then they have the right to know if you mess around with men.
2006-11-25 17:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is not going to work anyway. If you are a bisexual woman seeking to be with an uptight straight guy, one of you is going to have to change big time. And for you to change would be to deny who you are. For him to change would be to open up his mind. If he can't do that, move on because this love affair is going no where positive.
2006-11-25 17:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question before anyone can answer: How would you take it if he was bisexual? Can you see him with other men? If not, you better start figuring out what you want out of a life? What do you do every morning..flip a coin..heads, it's a woman; tails, it's a man? Chill out!
2006-11-25 17:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i have a secret to tell you im bi are you cool with it . Then if he freaks out just be like I was just kidden the truth is blah blah blah make something up thats what i did when a coming out went wrong lol.
2006-11-25 17:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to invite another girl in the bedroom.I would jump on that Chance as most men would.If he don't . your not going to change and neither is he.Good luck and enjoy.
2006-11-25 17:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some? Kidding. I guess, just be honest with him. Also be honest with him on whether you are gonna dump him for a girl one day or just have extra activities.
2006-11-25 17:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... Well I'm basing this on his behalf... My soon-to-be brother-n-law, he doesn't agree with the fact that there are Bi's and that they should not be dating in the matter off the same sex.
2006-11-25 22:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by hansomman_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having him over, but don't tell him your girlfriend is there. Then both of you strip him, then each other, I think he'll either run or enjoy...just something to think about.
2006-11-25 17:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him will not make it. Better to tell him now and find someone who will accetpt you the way you are. Good luck.
2006-11-25 17:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you risk losing your bf.some things are meant to be kept a secret.just see your females on the side.
2006-11-25 17:42:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋