I don't think I'm gay.. but I don't know what exactly is wrong with me..?

Question

I"m a 25 year old woman.. When I have sex with men, it feels good and I'm turned on but I've only had an orgasm through penetration twice and that was because I was high(on weed). But I always have one when someone is going down on me. When I watch porn, I get turned on by two woman.. But when i see a woman, i don't want to sleep with her.. I'm so confused!!!!

All the men I've been with have been serious relationships that are good lovers and are well endowed.. I don't think they're donig anything wrong...

are you bi if you don't want to sleep with a woman at all though?

Answer 1

NOT MANY WOMEN HAVE VAGINAL ORGASMS.....I WOULD BE SECURE IN SAYING THAT 99 PERCENT OF WOMEN NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TO HAVE AN ORGASM....IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR A LESBIAN................

Answer 2

I would say that you are a normal woman. I am fortunate to have orgasims during actual intercourse. Though it does take some time to work up to it. I have a friend that will be 24 soon and she's only had 2 orgasims from intercourse. She can get off from being touched, but not druing actual sex. I've heard of several cases just like this. As for the porn.....well it may not be just that fact that it's two women, it could be that you can see the expressions and hear them, more than that you see it's two women. I personally have always been turned on by girl on girl action more than the "normal" male/female porn.

Answer 3

Your history doesn't make a clear case that you are gay. And, relatively few ladies get off from intercourse alone. So you don't sound abnormal to me. You might try delaying intromission until you are aroused to the point of begging for it and see if you can get off that way. There are guys who'd be perfectly happy to get you off by cunnilingus alone and every time as part of an intimate process. It's not unusual for a person to become aroused by seeing two people of their sex going at it. There are many, many guys who'd be ecstatic to have you in their life.

Answer 4

Well .. from what I hear from the female crowd you're not the only woman to suffer from that..

A LOT of women have trouble achieving orgasm through penetration .. you'Re normal .. don'T worry..

Answer 5

If you women weren't so keen on chopping off the foreskins of males - which are designed to stimulate the clitoris - you would have many more orgasms. If you leave the penis the way it came when it was created, you women won't be complaining about lack of orgasms! But you insist on your sick and perverted view of how a penis SHOULD look and you end up shooting yourself in the foot when you chop off our body parts. Women deserve to never orgasm again.

Answer 6

Just because you get turned on by two women doesn't mean you are bi. If you think it's cool to watch someone rob a bank and get all that money that doesn't make you a bank robber.

Answer 7

Dude its not the fact that ur gay...its the fact that ur bisexual!...men turn u on but u love 2 look at woman...ur bi...

Answer 8

Since porn desensitizes a person to normal intimacy, maybe you have been watching too much porn.

Answer 9

no your not gay..almost all women get off on watching to girls cause they say only a women can really please another women. because she knows all the right places.. and i guess if you really don't know you could try it and see what happens.. I'm not gay and none of my friends are and we feel the same two guys is sick but watching two women just something about it..