My family is very religious and Bigoted it was bad enough bringing a "white girl" home so bringing a guy around would be 1000000 times worse im bisexual and i need to come out the bad thing is no one would except it and my dad has not 1 not 2 not 3 but freakin 10 brothers and sister. And my mother has 11 !!!!!!! so i have like 30 aunts and uncles and 19 inlaws and 70 cousins to come out to how do I do this im so scared help. Should I just keep it a secret and have fligs in college or should i just move to europe and start a new life. I feel so hurt confussed and mixed up i think im exsperiencing a nervouse breakdown and no one can help me im suffering all alone help.
2006-11-25 09:17:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sry about the spelling please dont be a smart butt i have people near me and im rushing if my spelling is "RUINING YOUR DAY" then I am sry thanx people.
2006-11-25 09:18:50 · update #1
First of all, I know it seems as if this is an astronomical thing....and it is. You need to calm down and think of what you want out of life. Of all those thousands of relatives that you've spoken of....who do you feel most comfortable with? Approach them first.
Take them out for coffee and let them know how you feel. My experience has been that most people really aren't all that surprised when you tell them. If they are, just remember, you still are the person that they have loved all these years.
You also said you were going away to college.....start by telling the person I mentioned earlier before you go away. It gives them time to let it settle in, especially if they don't take it so well.
Remember, you have people who love you. They really will always love you and it may take some them some time to understand....but they usually come around.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 09:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian Ken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with family. but why just go blurt it out? live a lil' first , you sound quite young yet. so there should be no real big hurry for it all.
2006-11-25 09:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm im not sure what to do. depends if you want to live a lie, or if you think you will get shunned by your family.
2006-11-25 09:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.you will have alot of people to answer to.it maybe it's best to keep quiet until someone questions you.
2006-11-25 09:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is best for you. However, think about it before you do anything.
2006-11-25 09:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋