Should I tell my wife that my g/f is pregnant ? difficult because we are not sure its mine?

Answer 1

When you have been docking in 2 ports , NEVER tell the harbour master.

Answer 2

Why do you have a wife and a girlfriend at the same time in the first place? That's seriously sleazy!

You should tell your wife that 1) you have a girlfriend and 2) you got her pregnant.

Then, if your wife has any self respect, she will divorce your ***, so be prepared to 1) live alone or 2) live with your new girlfriend and your kid.

Or, if you're girlfriend has any self respect, she'll leave you too!

So, if there is any justice in the world, you'll spend the next few years spending a lot of time in Family Court, shuttling between the Divorce Part and the Child Support Part.

Good luck, loser!

Answer 3

Forst before you do anything...go get tested for all of the STD's out there. Obviously you are having unprotected sex with this other owman and she is having unprotected sex with other men. That way if it does come back that you have an STD, you can get all of the bad news out of the way all at once...no need to have more than one serious conversation...have one big one. I think it's best you tell your wife that you had an affair. And then after she gets done kicking your ***...which she will either do that or sob uncontrollably...tell her there's more. That the girl says she is pregnant and although you did have sex with her t hat paternity is questionable. I'd say hopefully your marriage is strong enough to withhold this, but if you are cheating...it's not that strong. Or then again...maybe it is. Maybe this was a one time fling...I don't know all the circumstances to cast judgement upon you...but you definitely need to get to a clinic to be tested before talking to her because you may have additional important things to discuss with your wife besides the baby. And you need to also make up your mind as to who you want to be with prior to telling your wife about this because I'm sure she's going to want you to choose, if she still wants to be with you. Just make sure you decide right and with your heart not your other head! Good luck with this one...there's nothing easy at all about this!

Answer 4

You said your girlfriend, which means you are/were cheating. That in itself is going to be hard for her to forgive, now here you come with news stating that your girlfriend is pregnant and it may or may not be yours meaning the g/f was out there with other people and neither of you wore protection. Yes, you have to tell her about this for more reasons then just the fact of the g/f being pregnant. Your wife needs to go get checked now, to make sure she hasn't contacted any diseases from you, since you were not careful enough to use protection.
This is out of my character to say this, but whatever your wife does behind this, is your own fault, you did not think, it's too much stuff going on out here to not think with the right brain. Yes tell her, and deal with the consequences.

Answer 5

Yeah tell your wife everything. That you have sex all the time and that your lovely g/f is pregnant and that you think it could be your child. But that everything is just fine like this. And remember to take some kind of weapon along. Like a bat or something. No, not to protect yourself. You have that ready for your wife to use on you. You need to get knocked silly. Sounds like a weird answer? Yes, because you are crazy.

Answer 6

Yes. Tell her what happened and just like you said that you do not know for sure whether or not the child is yours.

If she becomes a support, you have a fantastic gift in your wife. If she leaves you you can go stay with your girlfriend. Win, win.

Answer 7

i would say be honest with your wife....tell your wife that you slept with your girlfriend (does she know about your girlfriend?) and that she is now pregnant but it is uncertain if it is your child at the moment....is your girlfriend sleeping with anyone else? if she isn't well then it is yours isn't it....if the child is yours then you have to take responsibilty for that child and your wife, if you stay with her, will have to accept that you have a child with another woman to look after.

Personally i think the situation you have got yourself into is just stupid and so disgusting...that is just disrespectful to your wife by just having another woman on the side .... i don't think you've been a real man but whatever happens just make sure you're a good father to the child if it is yours and be a DECENT role model...

Answer 8

Yes you should as she's got a right to know that you're messing around behind her back. You sound like a coward if you wouldn't tell her just incase it's not yours!!! Which means your 'mistress' is also being premiscuous!! How disfunctional. Give your wife the break she deserves so she can find someone loyal who really loves her.

Answer 9

First find out if this baby is yours. You don't want to make your wife suffer and then at the end, the baby won't be yours.. Secondly.. not to sound so judgemental.. why are you cheating on your wife, let alone with a woman who thinks that the child might be someone elses? Don't ruin your relationship with your wife. I hope that baby isn't yours? If it isn't, i'd personally end that relationship and focus on your wife.. If this happens to be your baby.. then it's totally up to you to confess to your wife. Either way, i'm almost certain she's going to find out you had a child by another woman. If you were my husband, i'd divorce you. Shame on you.

Answer 10

Yes, you should!! Mostly because your wife needs to have an opportunity to have a check up to make sure she doesn't have some S.T.D> or even worse A.I.D.S.
What a jack@ss!!! Also, she will be able to make her own decision of whether she wants to be with your weak impulsive @ss.
Show some respect if you can't resist your impulses...call off the marriage!
You are lame!!

Answer 11

You should tell your wife youve been cheating on her and not just with anyone but with someone you consider a "gf", who has unprotected sex with other guys besides you and is not sure whether or not she is carrying your baby or someone elses. After getting this off your chest your wife can divorce you, and then go get tested for STD's.