I must say I got the responses to my questions about domestic discipline I thought I would get. We are living in a society where things are so out of order and it is no wonder marriages do not last today. My husband and I have been married 8 wonderful years and love each other more each day. We believe in having things in order. The husband is over the wife, and both husband and wife are over the children. I would first like to explain that there is so many amazing feelings that are between my husband and me when I get a spanking, and none of them are sexual. My husband is in his authoritive place, and knows it. I am in my place, where I should be. I am not a controlled wife, I am a wife that is very loved, cared about, and cared for. I know my husband is not perfect, but he is the one in authority, just like a teacher over students. Since we have things in order in our home, we have a very successful and happy home. If you are looking for this in your marriage, answer me;)
2006-11-25 08:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not understand why there would have to be "someone in charge" in a relationship. A health relationship is based on treating each other as "Partners" and Equals. And why would ANYONE have to "Spank" There partner like a child if he or she does something the other does not like? I my self would find that VERY degrading. You are a adult....not a child. Basically you have no say in your marriage....or for that matter your life...everything is decided for you. But I guess if you are happy this way then all is good....I just cant help wondering though what values you would be teaching children raised in this kind if home. That no matter what your opinion is...it matters not if it happens to differ from the authority Figure...kinda sad really that you can not have any opinions of your own....in fear of being disciplined
2006-11-25 08:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i imagine you at the instantaneous are not loved...i cud not even immagine how a 'an particularly effectual and chuffed homestead' you've been describing cud exist in such an unmutual relationship. your husband became easily very a lot grateful he were given married to an particularly contented spouse-you. If he became raised interior a similar way, he must be miserably spanked with the help of his mom and father...huh? perhaps, attempt to analyze and be truthful with your self- are you rather that chuffed and contented?
2016-11-26 21:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
American women want to act like spoiled children, but still get equal say in important decisions.
I don't know if I agree with your exact formula, but you are absolutely correct that there is a problem with having an irresponsible child running your family.
2006-11-25 08:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You like being a submissive little wife and getting spanked. Well, if it works for you, fine, but try not to let your daughters - if you have any - get sucked into believing that they have to be doormats too. In fact I really hope you don't have daughters.
Me, I do not see myself as a 'student' under a 'teacher'. I see myself as an active assertive intelligent self-regulated adult, not a child in need of a spanking.
2006-11-25 10:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I have to say that if it works for you and your hubby...then Ok by me. But it would not work for me. I had two very dominant and controlling spouses, and I could not stand the inequality and the oppression. I believe that both partners should agree on important issues such as this. If both don't agree, then you have problems.
So what works for you and your hubby may not work for everyone.
2006-11-25 08:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Whatever floats your boat. I'd have a hard time spanking my wife. We usually discuss and come to agreement we both can live with.
2006-11-25 08:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Honey, no American woman is going to allow a husband to spank her, ok?
We spent too many years sweating blood for the piece of equality we have now.
On the other hand, good for you for hanging in there with your traditions. Whatever works.
2006-11-25 11:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Ha Ha, thats funny. My husband gives me a good tickeling once in awhile
2006-11-25 08:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would definatly say that you are desprete to have a father figure, going really (too) far to give your husband that place in your life
2006-11-28 09:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Where does the dog fit in to all of this? I'm guessing between you and your "darling" husband.
2006-11-27 03:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋