No one in the world will talk to me. I must not belong here or something! There is nothing wrong with me either! l'm just a regular person. The only people on my side is my best friend and
my family. What about you?
2006-11-25 08:10:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie.. "Dubya" has the title of most-hated in the whole world.
Relax, you'll be fine!
2006-11-25 08:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Audio God™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still at school? You're obviously upset right now. You're probably thinking that since everyone is being horrible, then you're the victim and you haven't done anything wrong.
That may not be true. The chances are, if you think hard enough about things you've done recently, perhaps at school, you'll find you that you've broken some 'unwritten rule' that people have, such as 'never betray the kids by reporting someone to the teachers', 'don't betray a friends secret', 'don't steal someone's friend', 'don't obey every single rule, rebel a little', etc.
If you can't figure it out on your own, pluck up some courage and ask one of the people you've offended to calmly tell you exactly what you've done wrong or which rule you've broken, or get someone to ask for you. Then apologise to them and everyone affected by what you did. You should find you're more popular again after that. Also, you learn not to break the rule again unless its necessary for some reason. This is how people learn to get along. If your mistakes aren't corrected, you don't learn.
People are normally so afraid of the person they've upset or afraid of another argument that they avoid sorting things out and just get sad. Often things need facing head-on and sorting out instead. I hope this helps.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 08:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice: You are taking life too seriously. Most of the people in here do not know anyone. Hate is an absolute word and I always try not to use it. What I mean is that a person can dislike something or not agree with someone without hate. Hate tends to have rage attached to it. Another word that is over done is love. Love shouldn't be used in many cases. It is a nice day outside so go out and get some exercise, it will help you regain your strength.
2006-11-25 08:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by BS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be grateful you have family and a best friend, some people dont have no one. You should take each day at a time. As long as you do your best everyday dont worry about what the world thinks of you.
2006-11-25 08:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by isis72eg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that everyone hates you... stop worrying about it and focus on something positive. You will make more friends this way and people will see the good things about you. Go tell all the people you care about that you love them. It will make you feel better and you'll get some good feedback in return.
2006-11-25 08:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us are best at being the worst. Your question is grandiose, arrogant, and just for attention. Get over yourself and see what you can do for others. Why would someone want to be your friend when all you can do is whine with self-pity. Help others and you will find your life.
2006-11-25 08:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by keepthe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm in the world and I'm answering you so I guess you're not the most hated. :o)
Try practicing the art of listening and trying to find out about other people, even if they don't want to know about you for now. Listen and ask questions to draw them out. Ask things like, "How are you REALLY?" and look into their eyes, lean forward and listen.
You'll find your friendships growing.
2006-11-25 08:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by meoorr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A best friend and your family are all that really matter if no one wants to talk to you then be happy with what you have. Me I have no friends at all but I have my family and thats good enough for me
2006-11-25 08:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by whitesnake351 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many people like me either. Cheer Up! At least the ones that count are on your side!
2006-11-25 08:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your INFERIORITY COMPLEX! eventhough you think you are ordinary, you should still interact with others which will make them interact with you as well... it is impossible for you not to have any friends unless there is something wrong with you...
IF YOU GO OUT TO SEEK FRIENDS, YOU WILL FIND FEW OR NONE BUT GO OUT AND BE A FRIEND, YOU WILL EARN LOTS OF THEM
2006-11-25 08:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by elijah_11086 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've hurt anyone tell then you're sorry and they may forgive you.Then join a club or somthing and you could make tons of friends!Or if people don't like you cause your mean try being nice.2 wrongs don't make a right.
2006-11-25 08:18:10 · answer #11 · answered by brettbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋