They'res this emo girl. I told her i love her (even though im not the emo type.) And now she thinks im pursuing her. But im not pursuing her. I called her yesterday to wish her a happy thanksgiving. but her friend told me to just not call back. The question is. How do I tell her that Im not pursuing her? That as long as shes dating another guy. I want to be "Just friends." She thinks im pursuing her. And i've told her that im okay with being just friends. that i don't want to come between her and her BF. how do i tell her that im not pursuing her and want to be "just friends."? im really waiting. not pursuing. i don't think i could trust her if she broke up with her BF. like; what if she does the same thing to me? should i tell her im just waiting it out or what? :)
2006-11-25 08:07:39 · 6 answers · asked by Melody P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave her alone.
2006-11-25 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the best thing to do is try and tell her that, just tell her that you think shes special but you dont want to come between her and her boyfriend and that you just want to be friends and you will respect her relationship by not trying to weasel your way in. Maybe she just got scared off because you were so open with your feelings, which theres nothing wrong with that, only she probably wasnt expecting that, and got caught off guard.
2006-11-25 08:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesnt answer the phone write her a note about how you want to be friends since she has a bf that you love her but will wait until shes ready.
hope it helped,
brianna
2006-11-25 08:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything and she might wonder why you haven't had any contact and she might make the next move. If she doesn't then she is not interested in either a relationship or friendship with you.
Next?
2006-11-25 08:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by slipper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh, i would try and go for the girl who doesn't have a boyfriend yet..simple solution?
2006-11-25 08:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Flames Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just back off for a bit
2006-11-25 08:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋