we are very close but he is in a seriouse relations ship with a nice woman i feel bad cus he is there for me emotionaly and gives me money at the drop of a dime and we constanly talk on the phone i wouldnt want my man sleeping around behind my back but still i love him &he loves me what shoulsd i do
2006-11-25 08:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by maisysmth 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No it's not okay.
2006-11-25 08:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by UNITool 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it’s not okay.
First of all, you knowing that he is involved with another person and you’re still considering becoming intimate with him is straight up foul. Why be the other woman, accepting only parts of a man instead of the whole man?
Secondly, you state that you love him and he loves you. Well, let’s just say he break off his present relationship for you. You then become his so called serious relationship; because you are in love, remember. Once he gets tired of a committed relationship with you, he will then seek out another woman, maybe one of his ex’s, and then you will truly know how it feels to be deceived, like your thinking about doing now. Remember, “What goes around comes around!”
Lastly, what is within you that says it’s okay to accept anything other then the best? Why become intimate with someone that you know only shares part of him with you? Why would you want to live a lie? Think about it…
Be blessed and stay clear of volunteered mess.
2006-11-25 16:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is a spell check button before you close out your log. The word intimate is spelled like this!!!!
2nd of all, if you were so good together why didnt you 2 stay together. You are an ex for a reason. You say you wouldnt want your man doing this to you so why are you doing it to another woman? Shame on you for being a hoe!!!!!
2006-11-25 16:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_treats_4_u33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he really loved you, he'd be with you. He enjoys sex with you. He's using you for sex. He gives you money because he's afraid you'll take him to court for child support - which you should do. And then don't see him again. Get the checks sent from child welfare. Don't see him again. He is using you. You deserve better. From experience, I will tell you this: if you tell him no, he'll go away. He's there for the sex. Once again, YOU DESERVE BETTER. You deserve a man who will be there ALL the time. To answer your question: No, it's not OK. That is adultery. A man who cheats on his wife with you, will cheat on someone else if you become his wife. A cheater is a cheater is a cheater.
2006-11-25 16:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! what kinda messed up sick person are you? Not only are you being selfish, this could really hurt the kids. Think of how this would confuse the living crap out of them! Stop now while you are still ahead. And if you truly want to be with him then tell him to so!!!
2006-11-25 16:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Luv2dance101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him that you're worried and maybe talk to the woman he's with after u talk to him so that she doesnt chop ur head off...cuz thats what i would do
2006-11-25 16:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are a skank. cheating is cheating. Look at the example your setting for your children.
2006-11-25 16:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for him he's getting his cake....and eating it too....it's kind of a nowhere situation for you....is it worth it to you just to have someone to sleep with?????? I don't like sloppy seconds personally.
2006-11-25 16:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably not gonna be okay with the woman he is with
2006-11-25 16:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to let one of you go..... how would you feel if another woman would steal your man
2006-11-25 16:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweets, it is called USING YOU. Wake up.
2006-11-25 16:11:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋