After 2 years how much longer should I wait on a man to get serious move in marry... and settle down?

Question

Should I wait longer or leave him? I'm ready for more now.

Answer 1

I was in a relationship for 7 years and we didn't get married.
What's important is that you are in love. Don't push for it or you might end up pushing him away. Just enjoy what you have and let him decide when he's ready to make that move. The more understanding and supportive you are the sooner he will want to take that step.

Answer 2

If you haven't already sat down and talked to him about what his intentions are you should. Ask him where he wants to go with the relationship between you too. IF he says he doesn't know. Then i would say well im not waiting for ever. I want to have a life and I dont want to wait two more years for you to figure it out. If he doesn't know what he wants i would leave. If he really loves you and wants to be with you he will ask you to marry him or he would talk to you about it. ITs not fair to leave you waiting around. two years is a long time. Move on ( if you leave and he doesn't come after you then he wasn't worth it.)Men are hard to get to even tell you how you feel but if you go to extremes you will see his true self. Im married and had the same problem with my husband. I threatned to leave him and we are married now. But in a sense you can't give him an ultimatum(sorry).Do whats best for you.

Answer 3

If your ready push the subject. If he's not ready, and he tells you so, you have to decide what to do then. There is no hurt in broaching the subject.

I think you have waited long enough.

Answer 4

It all depends...do you talk about getting married...if so give him a little time....if not then you need to decide what you are going to do. Will you be ok with someone who does not want to marry?_

Answer 5

I think three years is a good rule of thumb.