would sex hurt the first time even if a girl wears tampons cuz wouldn't they get used the feeling of something being in them?
2006-11-25 06:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sweetie, it's like tearing your guts out, especially when you pop your "cherry" for the very first time a bleed all over the d*mn place. You'll be doubled over for days to come and wish that God would kill you.
2006-11-25 07:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
yes, you could have pain the first time. 1st thing, tampons are usually smaller than a man's penis so the elastic vaginal walls will have to stretch more than they have been used to in the past.
2nd, thing, you may not be as lubricated as you need to be to accept an erect penis. you may want to have some KY jelly (no vaseline or coldcreams) handy in case it is a tight fit the first time.
positions...you may have to find a spot that you both enjoy, you on top, boy on bottom (that way you have control on how fast he enters and the direction of the penis)
the most important thing for comfort is lubrication...make sure that you are really wet to let the penis slide in and out. if he is very big or long, you may have some discomfort...even though the vagina is very accepting to larger items...he could still overcome the elasticity limits
also, dont forget your heatlth. make sure he has a condom and if he doesn't provide one for him. HIV, Hep B, Hep C, herpes....are no laughing matters...if he doesn't want to wear a condom...what is his death wish...he should want to so as not to get something from his partner...
good luck
2006-11-25 07:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really.
it's more like pressure than hurt.
when a girl is having intercourse for the first time, it might feel a little uncomfortable.
actually very uncomfortable. but don't worry, it does not last long.
after a while, the feeling will be gone. you won't even remember.
as long as whoever you are having it with is patient enough to go really slow, everything will be alright.
beside, this is a step that no one can skip and it only come once in a lifetime.
2006-11-25 07:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by lizie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It does and could hurt until up to 4 - 6 times of having sex.
2006-11-25 07:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's different for everyone. Mine didn't hurt, but for a lot, it does. It helps if your partner knows you well (that you're a virgin) and loves you enough to be gentle and go slowly. Also, being well lubricated helps. Also, although it sounds easier said than done.....RELAX. When you're nervous, you'll tense up making it tighter and therefore it'll be more painful.
2006-11-25 07:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yezzzzz it hurts the first time you're doin' it but if you have sex with a guy whose penis is a small as tampons then I guess it doesn't hurt that bad.
2006-11-25 07:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It didn't hurt for me and I don't use tampons. I guess it just depends on the woman. Usually what causes the pain is the hymen if you don't have your hymen anymore then sex probably won't hurt. If your going to have sex please be safe and use birth control and a condom. Or at least a condom.
2006-11-25 07:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends...if you are tense and anticipating it too much then it will hurt..however if you are comfortable, relaxed and lubricated, then you should be better...it's recommended that you buy some lubricate, take your time and of course..USE PROTECTION!
2006-11-25 07:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Louisa C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. A man is larger than a tampon.
2006-11-25 07:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like you are way to young to be thinking about this wait till your 18+
2006-11-25 07:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by vetech_61 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋