She's been ignoring me lately like i'm just not cool enough to talk to her,we got really close and I just don't know what happened. When she see's me sometimes she doesn't even aknowledge me sometimes. I don't know whats wrong!
2006-11-25 05:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This stuff happens from time to time - try not to take it too personally. You'll find that friends and come and go throughout your entire life time. Be kind and be there for her... she'll be back.
2006-11-25 05:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird cause the same thing happened to me. Only we weren't as close. Maybe there was some kind of embarrassing event. I would ask what's wrong, be honest, truthful and just be yourself. "I've noticed we've been a bit distant lately, is there something wrong?". The real trick is getting the truth out. That can be the painful part if she's reserved. She may feel like telling the truth will somehow make things worse or aggravate this "problem". So she instead, will hope things cool down in time.
2006-11-25 05:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and think about the recent past. did you guys have a misunderstanding? or has she been talking with a new group of people? if that latter is the case then they may have pressured her into not speaking with you. and if that is so, then you are better off to find out now. real friends don't dessert you for other people just because the new group doesn't think thier other friends are "cool" enough. real friends stick up for you and tell the new people to sit on it.
2006-11-25 05:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her during lunch or whenever you get the chance to talk and ask her what's up. Don't point the finger, because she may get upset. Just say something like, "I feel like we don't really talk as much anymore. Did I do something to upset you?", and that will get her to talking. If she says you did something, and you don't remember doing it, don't get upset and start yelling; keep everything calm and try to resolve the situation.
2006-11-25 05:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by ?~GotLove~? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's moved on and is no longer interested in the friendship apparently. Probably for immature and shallow reasons. Nothing you can do however. If shes treating you coldly, treat her coldly right back. Ignore her and find another friend.
2006-11-25 05:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is something going on in her family that she's having a difficult time dealing with? If so she might just not be up to talking yet.
2006-11-25 05:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well doing what she is aint gonna help and i felt like that with my best fiend but we talked about it and if she doesnt treat you right then maybe shes not worth your time.
Love,
Brianna
2006-11-25 05:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change, try to hang out with new people or ask her if anything is wrong.
2006-11-25 05:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by im bringing sexy back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is ignoring you if she continue find a new friend.......... am sure you can find a Bestfriend..........?
2006-11-25 05:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her whats wrong.and tell her that your driffting apart.
2006-11-25 05:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by suri c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋