I got badly hurt and I have no respect for this individual whatsoever. I do, however, have a beautiful recollection of the day we met. All I'm asking is, is it healthy at all to cherish this in my heart because it's like a fantasy. Not real. Someone who loves you doesn't do certain things under any circumstance.
I just feel like I'm fooling myself the way I think about that one day in August 2 years ago.
It's all been a lie anyway.
thanx
2006-11-25 05:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no, sweeties, it didn't last 2 years. it happened 2 years ago. it lasted for half a year
2006-11-25 06:10:18 · update #1
Sorry, life is hard sometimes. Some day you will look back and remember your good experiences with this person as a sad sweetness. It is better to have loved than never have loved at all.
The memories will be good for you, just give yourself time to heal from the wounds.
God Bless
2006-11-25 06:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by wildmedicsue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you got hurt in this relationship. Yes, I think that it is normal and FACTUAL to cherish it. The reason is that there was something for REAL in your relationship of two years and that is no lie. How you felt, what you thought. There are no guarantees in any relationship. It was not a lie or a waste of time. However, it is time to move on. But it is ok to remember the good times with fondness! But it is important to move on with life and not live in the past.
Good luck
2006-11-25 14:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is part of the human condition that we remember wonderful things that have happened to us.
Don't feel guilty for remembering that time. It happened and was a beautiful part of your life. Just let it go.
You will have more beautiful moments in your life.
2006-11-25 14:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people who experience this. Memories are amazing, but be careful not to stay in the past. We all must move on eventually, keeping the memories as that in the past.
2006-11-25 13:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by tomarescobar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories are fine and harmless as long as you dont obsess over them. Remember the good times. It wont hurt you.
2006-11-25 14:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, you can remember the instant things were good for you, however substitute a face and the person with someone else.
2006-11-25 13:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try expressing those feelings artistically (writing, music, drawing etc.).
2006-11-25 14:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋