I am a senior in high school and my first love broke up with me 3 monthes ago. It has been a slow healing process and I am finally starting to get over her. Unfortunately, the only time I see her is one class a day and in this class she has a new boyfriend. I hvant talked to her in about a month because I told her it was too hard for me to pretend we were friends. I used to like this class but now I hate going to it and it is hard to concentrate because I have to see them together. How can I deal with this without being hurt everytime I think of her and everytime I step foot in that class? (and there really are few other girls I can talk to in that class)
2006-11-25 05:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by im bringing sexy back 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Even if there is only one other girl in the class you can talk to, you have another girl there to talk to.
Best thing for you is to move on and date others.
All my best to you.
2006-11-25 06:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really tough. The only advice I can offer (and I have been in a similar situation before) is to make yourself go to class, force yourself to talk to others and go out on some casual dates. That will aid in the healing process but it will be slow. Maybe you could talk to a parent or school counselor as well. Just to have someone to get this out to and talk about your pain. I'm so sorry *HUGS*
2006-11-25 05:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to heal when the person that u cared for is in your face everyday, especially when they are with someone else. I would request a transfer out of that class if possible. You need space between u and her. If this suggestion isn't possible then u need to know u will get over her and heal, it will just take a little longer that's all. Try to ignore them and focus on the reason u split up, and not the good times u had. Good luck.
2006-11-25 06:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just ignorant about what women are for. You think that just because you put your penis in her, she is your life partner and soul mate. You think that because you have no experience with women. You don't know that it takes a hell of alot more than that. Your relationship with her was temporary, hedonistic and disposable, despite your delusions to the contrary. That's the source of your pain.
The solution is experience with women. Date and sleep with other girls. Understand what is going on BEFORE you do so. What I am talking about will become obvious and second nature, preventing you from having unreasonable expectations based on fantasy rather than reality. You won't think about your first girlfriend the same way anymore.
And here is the important part. You will be able to tell the difference when you are with a girl that is not this type of situation. The difference is actually quite dramatic. But, because you have no experience, you can't tell the difference.
2006-11-25 06:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to think about other things
Maybe date someone else so you can forget about her
2006-11-25 06:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to not let it bother you. if you are not ready to date then just dont let it bother you. and if you are ready to date then date someone and make her jealous
2006-11-25 06:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by ulamciadilaucurats 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋