Me and my friends were planning to go to Adventure Island. I was at my friend Perla Mae's house. My friend Zaria wants to come. Her dad brings her over and realizes that i am there (i am a boy at a girl's house staying overnight). The next day we all go to Adventure Island and have a lot of fun. We come home later and a few hours after we got home and Zaria's mom looks up the directions for the address of Perla Mae's house and immediately comes over to pick up Zaria while she is having fun. Zaria is now mad at her mom for ruining the day. Who's fault is it? Zaria for not telling her parents that a boy was staying at Perla Mae's house with them or the mom for ruining her daughters day by picking her up from the home?
2006-11-25 05:39:14 · 12 answers · asked by Deonte 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Would I do this to my kid?
First of all, I would like to know why Zaria's mom came over to pick her up while she was having fun? Is it because she didn't feel the place was safe for Zaria? Or what? Also, I ask you did Zaria know at first that you are a boy at the your friend's house?
It is nobody's fault. If Zaria's mom didn't feel her daughter should stay at the house, then it would be up to her to pick to daughter up and go home. You all went to Adventure Island so I assume you all had fun. It is possible that her mom feels that she is tired or something. Zaria shouldn't be mad at her mom. She should find out why her mom pick her up earlier than she should. If her mom didn't want her daughter to be around boys, then Zaria should get upset because it is to her benefit.
I don't have any kids but if I do, I would like to know how old is my kid first. If she is only 8, 9 10, or 11, I would definitely pick her up if I find out there is a boy at the house my daughter is going to. If there is no supervision, who knows what the boy will do? It is not about ruining her fun, it is to a young child's benefit.
2006-11-25 05:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but its Zaria's fault. All kids know that parents freak out if a friend of the opposite sex stays overnight at the place where the kid is going to stay. Either way, she needs to respect her parents rules.
2006-11-25 13:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by boy_skowting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zaria should have told her parents that a boy was staying at the house! Her parents behaved responsibly, but Zaria didn't!
2006-11-25 13:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it's your friend, Zaria's fault, she should always tell her parents exactly what she doing, and because they are her parents she should know that having a boy there would anger them, so by her not saying anything, it's her own fault, you can't blame the parents in this case.
2006-11-25 13:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sensei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a parent myself I have learned from experience there are always two sides to every story. Not knowing both sides from what you have told us I would guess the parents had a problem with there being a guy overnight, that they weren't told about.
2006-11-25 13:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have a responsibility for their kids. If she got into any trouble they would be in trouble, too. So you can't really blame them for doing things like this. She should have told them a boy was staying over, that's important information.
2006-11-25 13:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is both fault. because most parents would not allow their girl to stay all night over someone house that a boy will be. it just what parents do. and she should have told her parents that you would be there
2006-11-25 13:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is always the best way to go,but if she would have been honest to her parents they would not have let her stay but she could have went to Adventure Island.still.that way they both got what they wanted.
2006-11-25 14:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by onewhowants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have been that they had something to do and that your friend didnt want to do it.
2006-11-25 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by monkeybread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll its half and half the grl should of told her mom and maybe she wold of understood !!
2006-11-25 13:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋