are in a relationship or not??? some men get jealous of a woman's successes and tries to bully her...in that case...i would get a divorce....(because he is not GOING TO CHANGE)...he will just wear you down...what is your take on that????(hypothetically, you were not aware of that when you married him...because YOUR SUCCESS CAME LATER).....
2006-11-25 05:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you. I would divorce a guy like that in an instant.
And personally I think the whole idea of "staying together for the kids" is the worst thing in the world. From experience, I know that I would have rather lived in a single parent household then have to endure the fighting and unhappiness my parents went through because they thought it would be better to stay together for us. It's so unhealthy for kids to see that. You have to be happy to be a good person and parent.
2006-11-25 05:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by jAdE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single people take care of themselves. We married folks also take care of ourselves, but AT LEAST as important is taking care of the person that means as much as life itself. A spouse isn't jealous when their spouse has success. IF they are jealous, it means that while married, they aren't truly a spouse.
2006-11-25 13:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The childish man needs counseling to over come his low self esteem so he will quit trying to bring down the wife to his low level of himself. Or ditch the dude, life is short.
2006-11-25 13:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, then it sounds like you picked the wrong person to be with.
The only time I would disagree with your statement of "do what's best for them" is if there are children involved. That's when you have to do what's best for the children.
2006-11-25 13:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference in doing what is best for yourself and doing whatt you want. Only YOU know what is best for you and you are responsible for your choices, whether they are good or bad.
Never accept bullying!
2006-11-25 13:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't get married if you aren't in it for the right reasons. forget success - when you get married, you should be willing to SHARE everything mutually
2006-11-25 13:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you have children or not. If you do then its no longer about you or him its about them until they are grown and out of the house.
2006-11-25 13:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your being teated like sh_it , then leave em' !
2006-11-25 13:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "AnnieD & angel"!!
2006-11-25 13:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm only you can answer this question
2006-11-25 13:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋