What reasons would you have to go ahead and get married, then? I know sex without love is possible, but I don't believe love without sex (in a male-female romantic situation) is worth it.
2006-11-25 05:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is about sharing all aspect of yourself with your spouse. Part of sharing is choosing someone with the same likes, desires and goals as you have. If sex if one of the aspects of a relationship that you find important, then you need to choose someone who shares that idea. If not, then you might find yourself looking outside the home for someone to fulfill that need.
2006-11-25 05:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't love in the first place. So if I love them enough to get married to them, I will marry them, even if it means that there might not be any sex down the road with them. Just because someone can't make love any more does not mean they are not still a human. They still have feelings, they have a heart, they have a right to still be loved even though they can't make love any more. There are other ways of getting pleasure from them. I don't mean cheating on them either.
Stop and think about this. You get married, you love this person so much. One day that person is in a car wreck, and they can't make love to you any more, are you going to divorce this person for that? I wouldn't, I would still love them the same as before. We would just find a way to please each other. Wedding vows folks wedding vows!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-25 16:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on you. If you are going to want sex on a regular basis then she must be willing to go along with it. Sexual frustration can lead a person to do things that they would not normally do. Be very open and honest with your mate, before you get into a situation that you know will get out of control. In other words, talk now or pay later.
2006-11-25 13:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reality is your sex life will change after marriage. It isn't quantity, but quality after marriage, after kids. I would never date or marry based on sex. You spend more time out of bed than in the sack. If you have good sex but can't talk to them out of the sack what do you have- nothing- If all your looking for is sex, stay single, go for one night stands, lead a superficial life.
2006-11-25 13:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by smwbugging 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge differance between someone being in a car wreck and unable to have sex vs a spouse who simply chooses to stop having sex with their partner.
If my wife was in an accident and couldn't speak any more, I'd stay with her. If she simply decided to never speak to me again, even though she could, I'd (rightly) conclude our marriage was over. Its no different with sex.
2006-11-26 01:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because marriage is not about sex alone. If the problem is your guy, seek medical advice before further commmitment to enable you knowe whether or not his problem can be solved before you make your move
2006-11-25 13:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't know..I couldn't imagine not having a good sex life. I dont know. No, I wouldnt marry that person.
2006-11-25 13:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You get married to have children. You date for sex.
2006-11-25 13:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
no!
2006-11-25 13:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by jija 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋