I talked to my 14 year old niece about her being in a gang. She seemed pissed off and embarrassed that I knew about it bout wouldn't tell me much. She did say that the gang was like a family and they watched out for her, but then she said even if she wanted out she couldnt just leave them. So, it seems like she wants out but is afraid. She seemed really quite the whole time I was at her house and my sister said she won't hardly talk to her anymore. I only have talked to her a few times in the last couple of years but she seems a lot different. I know the gang in her hood is hard core cause i've read about them in the paper but my niece is not like a thug so I don't even know what she would do, I just cant see her doing a drive by shooting or anything. My sister doesn't want to just come out and say but i can tell she thinks my niece is getting pimped and cause she seemed so embarrassed when i talked to her maybe she is. do gangs do this to their girl members?
2006-11-25 04:46:31 · 5 answers · asked by kayla j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gang is a terrible thing to be in, gangsters do the nastiest thing to you and other people. Gangsters do drugs, murder, random shooting, rivals might kill you while you are sittin on a couch. In a gang theres no peace, and its painful when other people whats you to do things that is just wrong. For a girl to be in a gang there are only two ways i heard of, most of the method is to let the girl have sex with an old member of the gang, or the second choice, steal or murder another person infront of a gang member =( so i think you should talk to your niece about quitting the gang as soon as possible and move out of the area where there is gang as soon as possible, and im so glad i did that, even though the gang seems friendly to you, but once your not in any more, terrible things will happen
2006-11-25 04:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the police always say girl gang members get pimped around, but it's probably different for each gang. Hard core gangs are probably more likely to be doing bad things like that since they're getting police attention.
Sadly, your niece will have to want out before she leaves. Like she said, it's not something you can just leave like the chess club. The people in a gang are criminals, and your niece probably knows just enough to get a few of them locked up.
Some gangs allow people to be "Jumped out" in which case, your niece could say she wants to leave, and everyone in the gang gets to beat her up until they're satisfied she won't say anything to anyone about them. Usually getting jumped out involves a beating severe enough to kill most people, and with a girl, it would probably also involve rape.
The safest way to leave a gang is probably by moving. If she's really ready to leave, and really won't miss anyone, or try to talk to them, it's usually pretty safe to send her to a relative who lives far away, and has a different last name. Since she's in school still, you'll also have to fiddle with school documentation, license plates, and pretty much anything else they might easily use to trace her down.
Of course, once she's gone, the gang will want to know where she is, and they'll probably start by asking you. Plans to move yourself might help this situation a bit. Plans to go on vacation will probably be met with a home burglary while you are out, but after that, the police might be able to help you when you get back.
2006-11-25 05:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gang people do nasty things. They do as much as you can imagine. So try to get her off the gang. And let me tell you where there is a will there is a way. Dont fear them. All bad people are basically coward from inside. I have a personal experience. When you are determined and stand against those people they run away.
2006-11-25 05:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this could be true if worst comes to worst (im talking about your neice being pimped) you have got to sit down and try to talk to her about it and read the following books and make sure she does too somehow! if she does not quit the gang by reading the folowing books, then she is insane because these books were created by the former head gang cheif of the latin kings. the books are My Bloody Life and Once a King, Always a King. make sure she reads my bloody life first because it explains how he ended up in that situation in the first place and she could experience a connection and this might help her to quit. please feel free to email me at forgotensoldier9@aim.com for any help
2006-11-25 17:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Vinay H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can answer this question cuz im the leader in my gang... the gang is called "the bad @ss chocolate eating mother fu*****
its ok
2006-11-25 04:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by kegy411 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋