Ok she got me and my friend in trouble at school for something. And we had to go to court and i got community service and these weird classes! (nightmare)
2006-11-25 04:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Nikki E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forgiving is good, grudges are bad. Forgive the person for yourself, if for no other person or reason. Besides, one day, you'll do or say something you'll need someone to forgive for, and you'll be hoping for the forgiveness. No one is perfect. We're just human.
2006-11-25 04:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Court and Community Service that is alot but it doesn't hurt to forgive a person for what she did but before u forgive this person or before you get this person out of you life you need to ask yourself if what you were doing in school was right or wrong and if it was wrong then you should go up to this person and forgive them because you may had gotten in even more trouble if a teacher would had caught you don't you think. I always tell myself that you can Always Forgive but Never Forget. Forgive this person and you'll see that you'll be happier and with the community service it will be over and forgotten.
2006-11-25 04:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda a tricky one. You can forgive her if she truly means she is sorry for getting you into trouble. If, she didn't mean for it to go that way.
But... If, she has no hard feelings for what happened, or hasn't apologized or anything to that extent, then no don't forgive her. If, she was a true friend she would do anything in her power or will to tell you she is sorry or show you she is sorry for what happened. It all depends on how close you two are as friends, and how she took about what happened.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!
2006-11-25 04:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People makes mistakes everyday no matter how big or small. You should forgive her, but talk to her about what she did, let her know how you feel and how she hurt you . Dont hold it in, tell her. Maybe you guys can work it out and be friends, or if not friends.. at least you will know that you did the right thing. Staying mad at people and holding grudges is never healthy.
"Forgive and you shall be forgiven."
2006-11-25 04:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by stoneydork21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if she has done it to make u problems, if she was planing it or it was by a mistake and she didn't want to cause any problems. If she has planned it, she does not deserve u to call he a friend. U can forgive her in Ur heart, but never forget and never call her a friend. Take care of her. Who s done sth once will do it again.
2006-11-25 04:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by w_chantall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about this with out being stubborn, from her point of view, were you doing something wrong? did you deserve to get in trouble? maybe it wasnt nice of her to do but maybe she was thinking in the interest of others or something, i dont really no the situation to well but i did have a friend who was smoking pot and i just walked away and left, that friend later got into a car and killed two people in a car accident, i wish i got him in trouble because then those two peole may still be alive, but idk what your sitch was....i think forgiveness is always best instead, if your debating wether or not to be mad, if you dont want to be mad then just forgive her.
2006-11-25 04:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, but tell her that you don't want to get into anymore trouble! And if she does get you into more trouble, I'd consider hanging around her less, that way you'll be less likely to get into more messes like this
2006-11-25 04:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by dramagirl4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was this the first time this happened? if its happened before i wouldnt. she cant be a true friend though if she doesnt admit that it was her not you and your other friend. Maybe it would be better not to forgive her because, she could do it again and it could be worse nexxt time and she'll expect to lay the blame on you and still be friends with you and use you.
2006-11-25 04:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by fe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what did u do to go to court?
yes u should forgive her
2006-11-25 04:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her for your sake but don't have anything to do with her.
2006-11-25 04:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Antonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋