for me, i will still treat him as my best friend as long as he is willing to treat me as a friend and be sorry for what he did. for human to err is normal. thus i will forgive him as much as i will tolerate.
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2006-11-25 04:32:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
each betrayal begins with trust
watch yer back
find a best friend who wont do that
2006-11-25 04:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by whacky doodler 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think I could forgive and try to forget depending on the severity of the backstabbing. I have before and other times I've done something wrong and they haven't forgiven so I know what both sides feel like.
2006-11-25 12:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that depending on the situation did to stab you in the back.
Such as if she/he slept with your man/woman, I dont think that is forgivable. This boundary should never be crossed.
Pretty much the situation will vary from friend to friend, as how long you been friends, do you think they are truly sorry or if their sorry because they were caught, do you think they will do it again, etc etc..........
I know we were all taught to forgive one another, but like I said depending on the situations severity of it, will you be willing to forget and move on.
I always say forgive, but sometimes its best to move on as well
2006-11-25 12:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_treats_4_u33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If she did it once and apologized for it and TRULY meant it, then yes, I would forgive her but I would NEVER forget. It's hard for me to forget when someone has hurt me, and it's also hard for me to forget if I hurt someone else. In she did it numerous times, then I wouldn't forgive her. That would prove what kind of friend she really is.
2006-11-25 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation, but usually I can forgive but I will never forget.
2006-11-25 12:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unforgiveness causes the root of bitterness to grow in your soul, and having bitterness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die...so yes,..I would do my best to forgive AND forget!..so that all could be well with my soul.
2006-11-25 12:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Goodie2shoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would forgive, but i dont think i can forget it. come on, best friend wouldnt backstab you in the first place.
2006-11-25 12:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rule for people I care enough about to forgive...Forgive, but NEVER Forget... You don't need to dwell on it, but don't ever forget...thus it happens again!!
2006-11-25 12:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is truly your BEST friend he/she would NEVER stab you in the back as they will ALWAYS have your back covered. So no I would not be able to forgive them.
2006-11-25 12:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whether or not they can regain that trust they violated..Sometimes if the cut is too deep I move on in order to prevent another such episode in the future..Lessons learned are lessons taught by experiences.
2006-11-25 12:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by legendary~cool 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in the words "I'm sorry" they are so misused and over rated.I give any one only 1 chance,that's it.I don't forgive and I never forget
2006-11-25 12:37:20 · answer #11 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋