his x will be there
2006-11-25 04:26:50 · 24 answers · asked by hollyberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes it is ok, if you trust him.
no if you cant.
2006-11-25 04:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there comes a point when you have got to trust your partner so this might be the time. Be honest - say you're a little concerned about his ex. being there (don't sound clingy - blokes hate that) and see what his response is. Men find it much easier to be just friends with their exes than women can, - if he says that there's nothing between them then I suggest you should be OK with it - you will definitely be able to tell if he's been 'playing away' by his general demeanour when he returns and, if he has, he's really not worth it and you've learned a lesson.
So, my advice, let him go and earn your trust.
2006-11-25 12:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think relationships need trust. If you don't trust him then maybe you need to work on your relationship. Most people will be thinking the way you are ,it's normal but don't let it consume you,ok. When people are given space they will come back to you with a stronger feeling to you knowing they can have a life outside of the relationship.
2006-11-25 12:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by sunburned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if he is still interested in ex? Did he tell u without prompting she would be there? Ask him for his feelings on the matter. Is there still unfinished business between them? Be guided by his answers. As for letting him go away its not something for u to decide. Hope it goes the way u want it to. Good luck
2006-11-25 12:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by bcs31859 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-25 12:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by carmelacenan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it completely depends on what you're talking about. will your boyfriend be staying WITH his ex? or... it it just a party? either way, you should be able to trust that your boyfriend is honest with you and knows what he's doing. make sure his intentions are clear before you let him go wherever he's going....
2006-11-25 12:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by live*laugh*love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay. If you trust him and if he is respectful of you then it shouldn't matter who is there. If you have to be with him all the time to be sure he's faithful then he's not worth it anyway so perhaps this will be a good challenge for him.
2006-11-25 12:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Christian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you trust him let him go. Why can't you go? If its becaue he is in a club or something let him go. If you act all crazy you end up losing him. Plus you know your man well and know if you can trust him or not.
2006-11-25 12:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you trust him, if you know that he is not interested in his ex and other people will be there then it is you're decision whether to go or not
2006-11-25 12:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to trust him, it's not much of a relationship without trust.
2006-11-25 12:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jumble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing to say is yes if you have trust. personally my answer would be NO Way!
2006-11-26 19:14:40 · answer #11 · answered by cathyjast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋