I know I've hurt my now former classmate and crusher by calling her names lie a big fat liar and an ugly witch and I feel really bad about it. I was jealous of when she announced to me that she had a boyfriend and I had the bitterness inside of me. I tried to e-mail her but she never respond back to me. Also I called her on the phone and wanted to ask her to forgive me and trying to mend our friendship back but she hang up on me. Aren't we suppose to forgive one another if someone makes a mistake. I ask God to forgive me for the mistakes I have made on her and I want her to forgive me for the mistakes I have commited. So if you guys know anything about this, let me hear from you all.
2006-11-25 04:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by KrisMC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some relationships are beyond repair, but next time you'll know better.
2006-11-25 04:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yourself, know that God's forgiven you if you've truly asked with a repentent heart, and accept that who you've wronged, may or may not forgive you. Use this experience to look for a lesson that you need to learn something from. If someone cannot forgive you, then that's not your issue, it's their own personal one. It's not always going to be about you. In this case, I think it's the issue of your former classmate. Just accept it. It's part of life.
2006-11-25 04:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness takes in many cases much time. Maybe try writing her a letter expressing your sincere compassionate sorry letting her know that you were lacking and allowed being jealous over her new relationship guide you when all you did in the long run was hurt her the person you cherish as a friend. Do tell her you ask God for forgiveness and how honored you would be if she allowed you to reenter her life. If she does please think before you speak next time. Think of others and not only yourself. Stop being selfish which allowed you to be jealous. We are to be happy for our true friends and not think of us.
2006-11-25 04:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably was really hurt by you and just isn't ready to forgive you yet! You need to give her time, and if that doesn't work, try to talk to her in person and tell her what you feel. But if she won't listen to you she's not worth it. Like you said people should forgive each other, and if she's not willing to do that, then it's not your fault. But in the future, you should remember this stuff and you probably won't resort to name calling.
2006-11-25 04:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by dramagirl4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did make mistakes this is true BUT it looks to me like she no longer wants to have anything to do with you so i would just learn from the way you treated her and never act like this with anyone else so move on with your life.
2006-11-25 04:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by adahen2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness takes time, it really can't happen over night. I say bless them, forgive them if you can, and move on with your life. In the long run, you'll feel so much better.
2006-11-25 04:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness r given to those who have done the mistake unintentionally... maybe u should wait for her to recover frm the pain tat u have caused...& jus hope tat she forgives u..... even if she accepts u as a fren, i don't think she will act in the same way she used.....So i think..u should jus accept the fact tat u have lost a fren.. & hope not to do the same mistake again...
2006-11-25 04:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just needs more time, as you know forgiveness needs more time. and people sometimes needs more time to think about something. so keep hoping when she is ready she will come to you.
2006-11-25 08:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by •°o.O loret O.o°• 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would she want to talk to you again ?
Would you be interested in someone who spoke to you that way ?
You cant talk like that to someone and expect any further friendship.
2006-11-25 04:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by apup76 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on and learn from your mistakes. that's what life is all about.
2006-11-25 04:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋