you were not financially stable to support the baby?
2006-11-25 03:50:53 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm a guy...i know i can't get pregnant...obviously! But, i wanted to answer anyways. If it were my wife or girlfriend..and she asked me what i wanted to do...i would tell her abortion isn't the answer; and that we would figure something out!
2006-11-25 04:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO..... First of all VERY FEW PEOPLE can afford to have kid's. Second, if you knew you you could not support the baby you should have used more precautionary measures. But I know that accidents happen. But there are very good people in the world that WANTS children and they have the money to support them. If you thought about killing the baby PLEASE consider giving it up for adoption. Not only are you pregnant but you have a living person inside you already.....You have thought about and considering to abort you pregnancy....Does this mean you would commit murder????? That thing inside you is a LIVING BABY....from the SECOND of conception it is breathing heart beating, moving. It is doing everything that a human has to do in order to be alive..And also have you talked to the FATHER? Maybe he would take the child....Not all men are dead beat dads...
2006-11-25 04:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by yourdestiny_1969 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no to be mean. but if you new that you could not support a child. then why did you have unprotected sex?? i would not. there are people out there that can not have children of their own. if you really don't want the baby. check into an adoption agency. most of the time the people that would like to adopt will pay all medical bills. in some cases you could even meet the couples an decide who you would want as the child's parents.they would also be with you every step of the pregnancy and the birth.
2006-11-25 04:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! I'm not anti-abortion but I can't stand it when people do this because they don't have enough money! If you make the choice to have unprotected sex,then you make the choice to have a child if you fall pregnant.
In any case,you can get financial help if you don't work for a while,and if the fathers' around he can pay out!
I have two wonderful boys who some people would say we could'nt 'afford' to have,and yes it has been a struggle sometimes,but we love them unconditionally and they have everything they need.We would go without if it meant our kids could have something.
I could not live with the guilt for the rest of my life knowing I'd aborted a child for such a reason. LOL :-)
2006-11-25 04:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by pinkychel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not in a million years! Is this what you would call an appropriate fix to a stupid meanial financial problem? Yes it would be hard, but this is NO reason to kill a baby! Maybe you could get a job? Or a life even. This is the stupidest and saddest and sickest thing I have heard yet!
Don't be so ignorant, find a better way. Abortion is EVIL and people should go to prison for murdering their child if there is no medical reason for it.
2006-11-25 03:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Just because you are poor is not an option!! I would put the baby up for adoption. The adoptive parents will usually pay for all dr appointments and the labor. There is no reason NOT to give that little one a chance at life too!!
2006-11-25 04:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by prechemad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that is not a good enough of a reason. If you are unable to provide for the child you can offer the child up for adoption. You made the choice to have sex, at the VERY least, you owe the life growing inside of you to take care of it and yourself for nine months and let the child have a chance to live a full and good life. I don't think poorly of you- lots of women are in this situation..
2006-11-25 04:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you know that you couldn't be financially responsible for a baby then don't put yourself at risk to get pregnant. If you did end up in that position, and you can't take care of it, then put it up for adoption. There is some one out there that can take care of the child.
2006-11-25 04:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica_Bessica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm not as financially stable right now as I'd like to be and I'm on my way to my 2nd child due in June. My first is 4 years old and I wouldn't change having either one for all the money in the world. You just make it work, you know?
2006-11-25 03:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by aisha3821 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Unless people have very rich parents or they are older and have saved money and planned a baby I don't think anybody if financially fit to have a baby. That is no reason not to have. Better yourself and get a education.
2006-11-25 04:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Staci R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Putting your baby up for adoption would probably be best in this situation. After doing so take extra precaution so you don't become pregnant again until you are able to care for a child. Putting the baby up for adoption will be the best decision for YOU emotionally in the long run. I promise.....
2006-11-25 04:35:15 · answer #11 · answered by STRAY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋