My fiance doesnt talk to me at all anymore.?

Question

it all started when his sister and i did not get along . She was a royal B****.... but i just went with the flow. but then she started messing with my car and stuff , she just did not want me with her brother... i got kicked out of our home by his family. i am staying at my mothers , and he always has thephone off the hook and wont talk to me online or anything, but he has made a new myspace page that he wont let me see or even kno the email address to . i just want to kno if i should bother , he is hurting me deeply and i just cant take it . please help

Answer 1

I think the message is pretty clear that he dosn't want you to be part of his life anymore, I know it hurts but move on... he is either going to wake up to himself and realise what his family have done to you and him or he is going to keep letting them interfer in his life.... be free and enjoy life your to young to have this stress in a relationship

Answer 2

I suppose it is possible that you are as dumb as you make yourself sound, OR you are hoping against hope that you still have a relationship with this person. YOU DO NOT HAVE a relationship any longer...count your blessings! This guy is a loser, first class. Let someone else have the headaches, for that is what he and his family are...royal pains in the ....whatever. It is past time to open your own 'My Space" page and have some fun in life. And it certainly wouldn't hurt if he stumbled on it, would it. Good luck, but you really don't need luck. You just need to get rid of the energy you are spending on yesterday...instead, invest it in tomorrow and go for it.

Answer 3

You need to back off and take a deep breath dear.If your fiance is already treating you like this,you need to put some time into thinking about your relationship and if this is truly what you want.The sister thing is neither here nor there if you hae the unconditional love of your man.I question his motives at this point and I would be ery cautious moving forward.Try not to show your pain,though you will feel it.Maybe you need to make yourself a new myspace page as a single looking to date female and see how he reacts.Good luck

Answer 4

i might take it as him purely being stressful. And heavily "IF" some years down the line once you surely waiting to have a 2nd, he's not waiting, then for my area you will possibly prefer to place the toddler you arleady have with him first. Your toddler which you're preg with desires a father and not a weekend daddy. putting that youngster first might mean which you probably shouldnt leave the guy you like and prefer to spend something ofyour existence with and have already made a newborn with to leave your toddler w/out a daddy so which you will flow locate some new "guy of the year" who's prepared to have extra teenagers with you. And as I mentioned opportunities are high he's stressful, we've 2 teenagers, and my hubby had a mini tantrum some months back after the hassle of rearanging the youngsters carseats that have been being complicated. He declared " Im so bored with those carseats, I dont prefer to have to any extent further teenagers." He didnt mean it =)

Answer 5

why would he take his sisters anything over you? You are still engaged? Why did his family kick you out of the home you and your fiance have together? Why did you allow them too? Why did he allow them to? If you have tried to contact him and he has ignored you for more than a week, I would seriously consider the relationship, is it worth it? You may want to move on, start getting over him, he sounds very immature, you can do better.

Answer 6

wait u got kicked out of your home by them? hell no...Why is your fiance acting like a royal ***? I know that you supposed to defend your family and all...but the way he's doing it is so wrong...it makes u think how life will be when you guys get married...he acting so immature and like a momma's boy...he needs to grow up and assume responsibilty...not talking to u will not fix problems...to maintain a good relationship you must have good communication...he needs to sit u and his family down and try to fix things...you are his future and he should know better then to take sides...so everytime his family has a problem with u he's gonna kick u out? I think you should use this time to think if you are gonna be happy with this guy and how strong is his love for u...good lucky sweety

Answer 7

Life is far too precious to be spent mourning and unhappily. Live your best life now, if you feel the relationship is not worth it,wrap it up and move on, on the other hand of you feel that it worth a kill, go ahead.

Just do't waste your time inbetween doing nothing and there are other nice people out there who want to have a relationship with you and can't because you are already hoked up else where ..do you see my point?

Good luck!

Answer 8

It seems fairly obvious that he does not want to get married anymore (possibly because of family pressure, or maybe he just doesn't want to.)

And apparently, he's not able to confront you about it, so he's throwing out other hints; not answering the phone; a private MySpace page, etc.

I think it's time to move on.

Answer 9

he is more concerned about his sister than he is u, thank your lucky stars that u didn't marry him, he would have never been there for u anyway. don't even go there, distance yourself from him, the hurting will pass, there will be another fiance in your life, be thankful he is out of your life, i know it is hard to understand now, u seem so young, u have no life experiences to draw upon, certinly seems as if it is over, and we must realiaze that we have no control over anyone else. if he couldn't stick up for u with the sister, than marriage would never have worked out.

Answer 10

You need to move on with your life. He can't put his family in there place and get on with his own life with you, you don't need to be a part of it. Besides what happens the next time that there is a different between you and his family? Wich side of the fence is he going to stand on? Move on and have a happy life!!!