She lies to me by sayin we cant hang out but then makes plans with morgan! Then she tells me we need to make plans! But last night she had another sleeppover with morgan!!
I dont know what to do?
2006-11-25 03:04:49 · 28 answers · asked by who am i 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
No offense you sound really young.
Your friend doesn't sound dependable. Make your own plans without her.
Unfortunately from my own experience girls like that do not change. If she does not appreciate you now she probably won't.
2006-11-25 03:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by P&B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I bet this morgan or Morgan is an imaginary friend and she's only testing you how much you love her,how much you can take and love her;if morgan or Morgan would be real or even he's real but she's still talking to you and making plans that means she's still loving you,if she would be happy with morgan or Morgan she wouldn't be talking to you at all,But also morgan or Morgan could be the name or the nick name of a bad person who's blackmailing her and is ruining her plans with you;any way you have make her to tale the real truth to you saying to her you'll be loving her no matter what if she's sincere with you,but if she can't trust you any more how you can trust her either ?
2006-11-25 03:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK--
you have to think outside of the box here.
She may have already had plans with morgan before you talked to her.
You have to realize that just because someone has ANOTHER freind, doesnt mean that they still arent your freind.
You should take her up on that and say you need to make plans- but not last minute so that morgan doesnt beat you to it.
If she ignores you ALL the time-- then she probably isnt really your freind and you need to go make new freinds. If she's just trying to fall into a certain group or something, then she's DEFINATELY not your freind, she's just concerned about her image rather than whether she is happy or not.
Trust me-- she's just making more freinds, chances are if she's saying that you guys need to do something then she wants to. You just have to take the innitiative.
I hope this helps. Just one more word of advice-- if she doesnt want to hang out with you and you are pretty much just following her around, then that's just a waste of your time, and im sure there are plenty of other people that will gladly welcome you because you sound like you have a wonderful personality.
2006-11-25 03:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big part of friendship is honesty and trust. If she's open about spending time with Morgan, then why are you angry with her? On the other hand, if she's hiding it, and keeping Morgan to herself, she's not really to be trusted. Ask her if you can be included in her circle of friends, and all hang out together. It would be more fun... the more the merrier, as they say.
You sound a little jealous that your friend has other friends, and it would perhaps be a good idea for you to widen your own circle of friends. Make new ones, and introduce them to your friend. You will then find that your time will be too fully occupied to worry about such petty things as what your other friend is doing. You sound young... get out, circulate and enjoy life.
2006-11-25 03:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Darkwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she lies. Are you and Morgan friends? Why can't all 3 of your hang out together?
I know its easier said than done, but maybe you should tell her that you know she is hanging out with Morgan and why can't you hang with them too!
2006-11-25 03:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your friend? It may just be that she doesn't realize that she's hurting your feelings. Is Morgan your friend as well? If she isn't then maybe your friend feels torn between the two of you. Otherwise they may just not realize they're excluding you. If they are purposely excluding you then you don't need friends like them anyway. Don't throw away your friendship until you've given your friend a chance to explain herself. Good Luck and I hope it all works out for the best!
2006-11-25 03:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone has the right to have other friends, but i see what you mean, if i were you i'd tell her straight out , you say you want to be friends with me and make plans, but then you invite morgan over , what is up with that? ... just ask her that see what happens
2006-11-25 03:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Casper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like that except she has all the sleepovers with me. my advice is to talk to her and find out whats going on if she cant tell you the truth is she worth being friends with? talk to morgan to hear her side of the story one of them could be going through a hard time right now and not know what to do or who to turn to.
2006-11-25 03:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by smokingdouble12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't want to be friends with you if she doesn't want to hang out with you. Ask Morgan if she talks about you behind your back. Maybe she wants to be your friend and your just jealous of Morgan. Sounds to me you just shouldn't be friends with you. Talk to her and see if she is intentionaly doing this. Hope I helped.
2006-11-25 03:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who does the same thing and I know how difficult and frustrating it can be. I have drifted away from that friend. We still talk and do stuff in school but I have other good friends I hang out and have sleepovers with on the weekends. But don't give up just like that! If this friend means a lot to you just talk to her!
Good luck! :-)
2006-11-25 03:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. She doesn't really want to be your friend since she makes excuses not to hang out with you. let her hang out with Morgan and you make new friends.
2006-11-25 03:06:12 · answer #11 · answered by Lil Miss Answershine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋