2006-11-25 02:27:11 · 15 answers · asked by rest_relax_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd blow it off for awhile. It may be nothing or you may have read it out of context. However, if other suspicious things start happening, then I'd ask him if something is going on.
2006-11-25 02:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by artsycasey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him about it. Ask him if he's seeing another woman, but do it subtly. Don't be all, "You're cheating on me!" and get all angry, because then he'll definitely deny it. Just say, "Honey, I know this is wrong, but I've been reading your SMS, because I felt that there was something going on with you being so attached to it all the time, and I was concerned. I saw that you put 'gave u woke up, dear' on your messages, and I got scared. I love you so much, and it would break my heart to know that you're cheating on me. Can you please tell me the truth?" That should make him open up a little. If not, try and notice how he acts around you. Does he shove you away during times when you want to be intimate? Does he stay out or go out not as normally as he used to? If he does any of these things, then maybe you should go see a counselor. He or she will help you resolve your problems and make your marriage stronger.
2006-11-25 02:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really enough to go on yet, Keep checking behind him since you already started this and see what else is said, I can't make anything of, "gave u woke up, dear". You keep an eyeout and see if there is any more and see if it is to the same person or not. It maybe a typo or it could be code for them. Good luck.
2006-11-25 02:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read them a little more… see if you can get more detailed information. It sounds like he has some kind of attachment with this woman but you don’t have enough to go on at this time.
Why do people cheat? Often because they need something they are not getting in their marriage and the other person makes them feel good.
While you continue to read his SMS, find out what you can do to make your marriage better. Maybe you can start by asking him if he is happy in the marriage and “what can I do to make things better for you and us?”
2006-11-25 02:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear stop reading his SMS.
Look you are approching a downward spiral that could do nothing but drive him away.
Look he married you.
Be the person he married. He won't be looking.
Spice up the bedroom life. Keep him excited and guessing who you are. I can highly recommend the Laura Corn books/training.
Look If he is happy.. You don't have to worry.
Beleive me I'm an oversexed guy.
We do stray easily when bored. Not at all when we look forward to going home and having fun. Sexually and otherwise.
If you don't want to worry and ruin things.
Make yourself important and alive to him again.
What you afraid of beign silly for your husband?
We love that stuff.. Makes us feel important. We need that.
2006-11-25 02:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him. A dear is just one of those names. Hey girl, Hey dear, Not that anything is going on just a word. People just get stuck or in the habit of calling others names. I call peaches peaches and so does most others. some times can not think of her real name. Just ask him about it and let him know if it bothers you that bad. Someone like her other half may have called her this a work and now they all do to pick on her.
2006-11-25 02:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 21:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are really insecure about your relationship or this particular colleague...I wouldn't do anything. I have many female friends that I call "Dear, Honey, Sweetie, and other pet names generally reserved for wives/girlfriends." It's not about desiring them, but a workplace affection. Nothing wrong with it, as long as lines aren't crossed.
2006-11-25 02:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont say anything to him about it yet. Keep checking his phone when you get a chance. If you see anymore txts that seem a bit odd, confront him about it. If you let on now and he sends her some more txts, he may erase them before you get the chance to look. Good luck with it and i hope it's harmless!!!
2006-11-25 02:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by lucy c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him about it address the issue let him know that was disrespect and don't do that, he'll see her at work
2006-11-25 02:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋