2006-11-25 02:20:31 · 13 answers · asked by rest_relax_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just keep snooping...then pretty soon you will enough info to bust him!
2006-11-25 02:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not saying that you are making this up by no means but you are changing your story just a little bit on your other posts. So what is going on here.? If you are married to this man, you have every right to see what is going on in his cell phone, emails and everything else. You get married, you have no privacy left. Your life and their becomes and open book to the one you marry. If not, what are they or you hiding?
If you did find out this information, I would say he is cheating on you and I would confront him about it, be ready..he is going to lie to you. But before you call him on what you have found out, see if any more comes up. Then wants you confront him, if he gets all defensive, then that is the sign that he is not only lying to you but cheating on you as well.
2006-11-25 11:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is why one should not be sneaking and peaking into other people business. If you think something is going on, why do you stay with him. And now that you know something is going on, why are you staying with him. You have two choices, Shut up and deal with the cheating, or leave him alone and move on. Find someone who has like ideas regarding relationships, values and morals. If there is no trust there is no relationship. And obviously you have reason not to trust him or you would not have been snooping into his personal stuff. God bless****
2006-11-25 10:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, what I would personally do is get the number of whoever sent the text and call them. Don't tell her who you are, just find out what her name is. Pretend to have the wrong number and say seomthing like "is that jackie?" and hopefully she will reply "no, this is ........ why who is this?"
Then do some digging. If you need some help, email me.
Every woman deserves to know if her partner/husband is cheating, if you are reading his text messeges he is obviously not trustworthy int he first place!
Good luck sweetheart
2006-11-25 10:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl, you were snooping which means you dont trust him! havent you heard the saying: what you dont know doesnt hurt? simply, if you go out looking for stuff,you will definately find it.the fact that you read the sms secretly shows that something prompmted you to look at his messages.you got what you were looking for so go ahead and finish the job by asking him about it.asking him will only apease you and maybe make you trust him or know what he is doing behind your back. go ahead, ask him, but be clever about it.
2006-11-25 10:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by niambie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be discreet but try to find out the id of the other person 1st. Then, if u sense some fishy activity confront him.
2006-11-25 10:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by garfield 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is how I found out that my husband was cheating on me for the third time!
Just keep checking on the messages and see what else comes in find out when the message was sent and who buy it could be all innocent too.
2006-11-25 10:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand this one, I would not say anything to him until you are able to get something better than what you have now on him. Be very careful, if he suspects anything then you lose your chances on getting any more info. Good luck, I hope it turns out to be nothing.
2006-11-26 14:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything and just keep checking and then you will eventually find out for sure all that you need to know.
2006-11-25 10:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep i agree with everyone else, wait it out and see what else you can learn, once you have enough ammo, see a lawyer, have them draw up some divorce papers......and leave them on his pillow one morning with the same message attached to the top sheet.....that maybe enough to make him pull his head in, or it'll send him packing either way.......
2006-11-25 10:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well next time send your own sms to this person, because the other person may not know about you!!!
2006-11-25 10:23:14 · answer #11 · answered by connie m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋