i really love him, and he love me too, i can not marry with him just because my parents will not let me to marry him, and they will not protect me.we had sex withtogether
now i want to know is it sin just because i love him and want him?
2006-11-25 02:19:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sex without love is meaningless fun.
Making love is a spiritual thing.
Sin is a man made concept - stop worrying about it.
Just remember - whether it is meaningless fun or spiritual - be safe about it!
2006-11-25 02:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is in the eyes of a Catholic. But if you love someone and know you want to be together, I dont see why that should be a sin. This can be a touchy subject for some people. I mean, most people have sex. I would say probably 1 in 10 people wait for marriage.
I know I personally would never be able to wait.
2006-11-25 02:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by njank99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are into some religious restrictions, I don't see why you can't have sex prior to your marriage. Keeping in mind different cultures too, in case it is prohibited, you better be careful. Your future husband might know you are not a virgin and things may go bad from there. If you love this guy and want him so much, why don't you convince your parents and marry him. If you love someone so deeply, making love is natural, it is an expression and extension of your love for each other.
2006-11-25 02:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a sin to love someone. If you're just out "doing whatever breathes", that would be wrong. As far as sin, the loving and forgiving God I know would weigh the motives of the act, and still forgive you.
2006-11-25 02:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine this is incorrect yet shall we step apart from the biblical experience... imagine of ways many ppl you're giving your self away to... sexual relationships connect 2 ppl as one... once you've sex w/ anybody you spot... you've develop into one w/ anybody and have not left the right room on your spouse. this is going to also carry about evaluating... you'll finally end up evaluating your different sexual relationships on your spouse... sex must be after marriage because then it wont be a matter of "Oh God i gotta abort the toddler" or something like that... its not difficulty-free to end a existence-kind... when you're continually looking for a exciting sexual relationship and your spouse cant provide it to you anymore... unfaithfulness will take position... i'm not telling you what to do, i in simple terms desire you're making the right decision.
2016-11-26 21:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not a sin. One question how old are you? You should be commiting to him 100% and get marry even if your parents dont want him dont loose your chance to true love you are going to regret it
2006-11-25 02:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your religion. Most religions say it is a sin to have intercourse before marriage, whether you abide by that is your choice and the consequences you will have to deal with.
2006-11-25 02:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please make him wait six months, if he can't then that's all he wants you for and your in love but he is NOT. Relationships that are based on sex and begin with sex DO NOT LAST. If you choose to go down this road with him then please save this e-mail and read it 3 years from now when your stuck with 3 kids and he's long gone.
2006-11-25 02:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by spitfire7611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the miracle of statistics- most of peoples do it unmarried, ex family, with coworker and many other combination.even on primitive societies, puritan and religious it could happen and the quwestion about sin was'nt a problem.
2006-11-25 02:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by mukyon1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, according to the Bible it is a sin. But God will forgive your sin if you ask Him.
2006-11-25 02:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋