MY NAME IS ERIC, AND I AM A 12 YEAR OLD BOY.
I JUST STARTED GOING TO A NEW PRIVATE CHRISTIAN SCHOOL. MY PARENTS ARE ULTRA-CONSERVATIVE CHRISTIANS. ON THE FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL I MET THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, SMARTEST, NICEST AND HOTTEST GIRL I HAVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE. I HAVE NEVER FEALT THIS WAY ABOUT ANY OTHER GIRL IN MY LIFE. JUST A COUPLE WEEKS AGO I FOUND OUT THAT THAT THIS AMAZING GIRL LIVES IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD!! I AM VERY RESPONSIBLE AND I WANT TO GO OUT WITH THIS GIRL, EVENTULLY.
I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT MY PARENTS DON'T KNOW THAT I EVEN LIKE GIRLS. I HAVE TWO QUESTIONS: HOW DO I TELL MY PARENTS THAT I LIKE GIRLS, AND HOW DO I GET THIS GIRL TO LIKE ME???????
HER NAME IS ALEX.
I THINK THEY DONT KNOW ABOUT ME LIKING GIRLS BECAUSE WHEN I WAS LIKE 10 YEARS OLD, I TOLD THEM I DIDNT LIKE GIRLS.
ALSO, THEY TELL ME THAT I WILL ''SOMEDAY'' LIKE GIRLS
2006-11-25 02:15:04 · 10 answers · asked by !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I was never that silly and childish.
2006-11-25 02:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by draftboyg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No boys like girls at 10 years old. However things do change when you get a bit older! I think you should tell your parents, I think they will think it's cute more than anything! Will show them you are growing up!
As for 'Alex", just be yourself, try to get to know her, see what her interests are, then maybe when you find out you two can hang out together. You are only 12 years old, so don't go thinking too far ahead!
Good luck little dude!
2006-11-25 02:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some advice:
Don't feel ashamed about liking girls (when you inform your parents). Just tell them that you found a friend, and you are just looking for company. Just b/c you like a girl at your age, does not mean that it is in a boyfriend/girlfriend way. They will accept this better than if you insisted that you needed a girlfriend.
Tell the girl that you would like to hang out, as nieghbors, and ensure her that you would enjoy her company, as a neighbor, and eventually as a friend...Don't push the issue that you may be physically interested.
Good Luck!
2006-11-25 02:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Crash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very normal we all had that young love before your parents are going to eventually find out but the best thing to do is sit down and tell your parents your situtiation i know that their not going to be mad because i'm pretty sure they have been through it to on the other hand about Alex just tell her how you feel don't do it around everyone just get her by herself and just let her know and who knows she'll probably like you back Try
2006-11-25 02:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tamia J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellllll, at 12 I certainly wasn't allowed to 'date', but here's an idea for you:
Go to your dad or mom (whichever you can talk to easeier) and tell them that you've met a girl you kinda like, and you'd like to take her to the movies (or whatever you want to do - skating, etc. etc.)... would they mind?
They may say no, so I *highly* recommend you ask the parents before you ask the girl.
2006-11-25 02:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by jon_r_patrick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow a 12 year old in love
well go to both your parents at the same time and tell them that you have started liking girls and that there is this one girl at skool that you like and you would like to go out with her.tell them exactly wat you told us and mention how responsible you are.goodluck
2006-11-25 02:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kappy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is so cute.. I guess you can simply speak your heart out to them and they will be impressed with their growing young man.. They can give you great advice. Good luck!
2006-11-25 02:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends mean tat u will fall in love someday but you have two make it your own frist k .
2006-11-25 02:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by freem_dome5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was amazing! nice job
2006-11-25 02:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by BENDER IS THE BOMB!!! (Fav show) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to tell them
2006-11-25 02:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋