My soulmate for whom I was ready to sacrifice evrything except my religion left me and married the "practical girl" whom his parents chose for him. Though all my dreams are shattered I still love him and wishes the best for him.
Now where do I go from here??? Is it possible to love another person that much??? Will I be able to give another person my everything as I gave this person??? I don't know where to go from here cos the thought of relationship itself is scary for me at this point. I don't think I'll be able to handle another heartbreak and I'd rather be safe (Call me coward) than risk going thro another truama. I really want to have some idea what happens next after this kind of pain. Would like some insight from ppl who have gone thro the same thing.
2006-11-25 02:14:44 · 3 answers · asked by garfield 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put your hand in God's Hand
Prayer, Time and Forgiveness heals all wounds
2006-11-25 03:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by J Truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is completely possible to love again and to love someone who is kinder, loves you more in return and thinks of your interest.
Love is not selfish.
Dear, quit torturing yourself. Obviously, this man was not your soul mate and you do have a soul mate out these waiting for you.
Get on with studies or working. Try to advance your education and your job.
You can love someone of your own religion and it will be a better fit.
Wish him well and pray for him that he has a happy marriage.
Go out with friends, do things with you family, attend the worship center of your choice and keep a light heart.
Sometimes things like this happen to us so that we can learn to appreciate the better things that are presented to us in the future.
Give yourself time to work out all the pain and concentrate on other things. In six months or a year you will have completely different feelings. Time heals everything
2006-11-25 02:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to love again but give you heart time to heal and don't push people away!
I never thought I would love anyone as much as I loved my ex but I found someone that I loved even more.....beleive me it is worth it.
Good luck let you heart heal and reemmber to smile
2006-11-25 02:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋