I end up with cystitus EVERY time me and my partner have sex..................................................

Question

Why? I always pee straight after!! Now all the antibiotics i'm taking are giving me thrush, and i'm back at square one. Please HELP ME!!!!! Thanks x

Answer 1

Do you use a condom? Try using one and dont mix it..if you get my drift!
A lot of people thing that urinating after sex does something magical but in truth it does nothing to stop infection.
The thrush can be treated using over the counter medications and for instant releif get some live yoghurt and spread it on your "bits" . It really soothes it. Make sure to wash it off properly after!!!...;

Answer 2

Oooooh, i really feel for you, i have the same problem,although i don't get it every time we have sex, just regularly, and i also get thrush, so we have a problem with that too.My partner had a larger than average penis, and sometimes i feel like i need to go to the loo while we're doing it, or i have to go straight after.Women are more likely to get cystitis than men, and once i had it sooo bad a rang NHS help line, who told me not to worry, because i had a little blood in my pee, and that it was caused by having really bad inflammation further up.She told me to drink loads of water and cranberry juice, which really does help clear it up.Taking antibiotics causes the thrush, so if i get cystitis which isn't too bad, i try to clear it with natural remedies, such as cranberry juice, and never holding on for the loo, as that doesn't help at all.Good luck!

Answer 3

You have to see through the course of antibiotics - despite the thrush (I get the same thing), because any residual infection will just come back again. Cut out heavily perfumed bubble baths and shower gels, wear cotton knickers and drink lots of water. If you use condoms use hypo-allergenic ones and when you pee afterwards, make sure it is substantial to flush anything out (not very romantic or spontaneous, but drink a glass of water before you hit the sack!).

Also, ask your Dr to test you for kidney infections too, in case the original cystitis has spread which is why its not going away.

And, without being too graphic on this one, make sure when you have sex its not likely to bruise you internally or elsewhere because that can bring on cystitis too.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I had a problem with recurrent urinary tract infections. Unfortunately, the germs are resistant to many antibiotics. I also found cranberry etc to be ineffective.

What does work is something called d-mannose. This is just a type of sugar. It's totally natural, no side effects. You just disolve in some water and drink it, and it clings onto the germs and flushes them out of the system when you next urinate.

You can order it over the internet. I've read lots of testimonials from people with problems like yours who it has helped permanently.

Answer 6

Drink plenty of Cranberry juice and water every day. Cranberry juice is excellent for this and fights all infections to do with the bladder area.

If this doesnt work try bathing in a warm bath (not hot) after sex and add into the water half a pint of full fat milk your be surprised of the effect it has. It removes hardness in the water and helps treat any problems in and around the viginal area. If you chose to do this dont wash using soaps just wash with the milk/water gently

Answer 7

Make sure you wee straight afterwards and take a shower. Having a wash before hand might prevent any bacteria that was down there causing infection. See your GP as this seems to be causing a real problem for you. Drink plenty of water and cranberry juice to flush your system out and clear the infections quicker xxx

Answer 8

have you tried using some ky jelly or something, it sounds like you are getting rubbed raw, maybe try finding a postition where he doesnt rub against the front of your bits. I know it sounds like I'm being rude, but is he clean when you have sex? a lot of men just drip dry when they go to the loo and that can cause bacteria which will irritate you.
In the mean time drink lots of pure cranberry juice and other fluids and try not to have sex until its all better!!!
good luck!

Answer 9

Go with the first answer, but if u have thrush, ur partner needs to be treated too so u don't keep passing it to each other.

Answer 10

Unfortunately some people have really short urethras that are more prone to allowing pathogens to get into the bladder. Try emptying you bladder before and after sex and maybe even clean yourself off well BEFORE sex. Get some diflucan and yogurt for your yeast infection, that will help clear it up.