2006-11-25 00:53:55 · 29 answers · asked by Baterfly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Then you have what is called a "dilemma".
And you are racist. Please go away.
2006-11-25 00:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your children will not be black, they will be mixed race. Consider why that is an issue. Is it because you are worried about what they will go through or is it because of what other people will think. There are places in this world (not sure where you are from) that are easier to live if you are a mixed race couple. Consider all the possibilities but ultimately you have to ask yourself just how strong is your love?
2006-11-25 01:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by teach_43 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...maybe really consider having kids with him, if you really feel that way! Why bring a child into the world, who you might not really love, as you should???
We have a bi-racial 5 year old boy in our family, ( my nephew) and he is the greatest, and he is loved by all the family members, and I'm happy that he is growing up in a non-prejudiced family environment. There is enough racial issues out there for mixed persons, and really bad IF it comes straight from the family! Don't have a mixed baby, unless you and your family are prepared to love the baby, the same way as if they were not mixed.. It will only be heartache for the kid, for the parents and the family, if they are not truly welcomed and made to feel special...
2006-11-25 01:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoCieCie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case, you have to redefined the meaning of Love according to your taste and preference. Basically what you feel is merely an infatuation or an admirations to this person, but not love. Or maybe physical love not true love.
2006-11-25 00:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHT_WATCH 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I have grandchildren who are part Black and part White (50-50). And, they are beautiful.
You will end up hating him someday--------so leave the poor man alone. You do not love him---------you like the excitement of doing what you ''think is wrong''.
2006-11-25 01:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Shossi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't really love him. If you did, the fact that he's black wouldn't make a difference. It's skin pigmentation, people. Not a disease.
2006-11-25 00:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Actually what you have for this black guy is a physical attraction (lust) not true love. If you don't want to have kids with this guy, please do the poor man a favor and leave him alone.
2006-11-25 03:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE BEST ANSWER TO THIS ONE!!!
YOU WANT THE BIG BLACK THING DON'T YOU?
YOU LIKE THE BIGGER THE BLACKER THE BETTER!!
IF YOU REALLY LOVED THIS MAN, YOU WOULD LOVE FOR YOUR KIDS TO BE PART TO THE MAN YOU SO-CALL LOVE.
GEESH WHAT TRUCK DID YOU FALL OFF OF? JUST STICK TO YOUR RACE IF IT HAS TO BE ALL OF THAT.
2006-11-25 06:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say that now but when your pregnant and experience the birth, you'll grow to love your child no matter what race or creed. How could you love him but not the seed? Is that logical?
2006-11-25 00:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by hardworkur84 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This question makes no sense at all!
it is idiotic!
if you love someone, and want to share your life with them, would you not want to share in a child together? UNLESS you both decide not to have children.
you almost sound racist!!!
2006-11-25 02:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by BubbleGumBoobs! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't you want your children to be black?
Black children are just like any other children: cute and special.
Besides, they'll be 'half-caste' or 'biracial' not 'black'.
2006-11-25 01:03:00 · answer #11 · answered by strawberrysocks 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋