how can i tell my friend that a guy was cheeting on her 4 times
2006-11-25 00:42:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so she went out with this guy then me and my friends saw him kissing a girl but not my friend so i need help
2006-11-25 00:46:54 · update #1
Tell her that you have a problem and want her advice then proceed to tell her about the situation that you just mentioned and ask what she would do and if it were she would she want to know because maybe the other girl would think like her. Tell her the story was about her if she says she would want to know. If she doesn’t want to know take her advice and change the subject.↔
2006-11-29 16:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adeli
I'm assuming both you and your friend are young, but listen girl, just tell your friend. That's what friends are for to watch for each other. If your friend doesn't believe, take a picture with your cell phone and show it to her. It's a bit harsh to swallow but the truth is better in facts then in hear say. This way, she can confront him and decide what she wants to do. From experience, most men tend to cheat if they don't get caught, and lie about it that they don't. So do your friend a favor, and help her move on to someone better.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 09:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by Treasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well i know this may throw u off but i dont think u should tell her because u are risking a lot if u do. sometimes people tend to think differently she may think that u are jealous and just trying to brake them up! cause most of the time that is what girls think! then she may take u telling her and be ok with it and not cause a big scene. and just listen to it. but to be on the safe side i think u should just tell her to be careful and not get too caught up in her relationship and leave it at that. i hope my advice helps!!
2006-11-25 10:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth. sit her down, try and make sure shes not in a public place where she can embarrass herself crying[not that thats stupid its just that noone likes to cry in public] so maybe in her bedroom where she can be on her own. tell her gently and say that youre really sorry but you couldnt lie to her. give her the choice to disbelieve you. be prepared for her to get mad-it will be hard to hear and shell probably prefer to pretend youre making it up. give her time to accept it and dont force her to talk about it; when shes ready to ask for your advice, she will. remember that that guy doesnt deserve her and she can easily find someone better. four times doesnt deserve a second chance. good luck.
2006-11-25 08:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by sing_like_ur_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to tell her but first try to have a proof like pictures to show your friend so that she won't think that you only telling lies to have him. gud luck, and to tell you the truth you're such a good friend
2006-11-25 08:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by beng_ganda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell the truth..to your friend..because in the end she will cry...so its better that your friend knows earlier that his guy cheating on her..okies..ill pray for that she will not cry..and pls...tell her not to cry...cuz there are lots of guys in this world..
take care!!!
2006-11-25 08:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by shinah_art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look youve got to tell her in person. if you didnt tell her, she would feel hurt not only for that reason, but because you never told her so. youve got to tell her or you yourself shall start feeling guilty, you never saved her from this
2006-11-25 08:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you are telling us
2006-11-25 08:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-25 08:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋