i was friends with this girl for a couple of years and showed signs she was interested in me so i gave her a letter asking her out
and she was happy about receiving it then last night i overheard her talking about her boyfriend to someone else but didnt give me
an answer to my letter so i just walked out i seen her come out after me to avoid any excuses or crap i ran into a shop and now i fear our friendship is over ive been cryin non stop an i feel i now have nothing to live for so very suicidal . any ideas on what i can do and SERIOUS answers only
2006-11-25 00:27:23 · 18 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no this girl is very thin
2006-11-25 01:05:34 · update #1
and how can i ask her out if she already have a boyfriend
2006-11-27 20:23:44 · update #2
curious how do u know im good looking
and the outcome of this was that she is no longer speaking to me and i also got told it was company policy she wasnt to date customers
2006-12-02 03:40:38 · update #3
You need to ask her out in person.
2006-11-25 00:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could of gave u an answer, but maybe shes thinking of the friendship to and how relationship usually ruin what u did have or maybe she just doesn't now and don't want to hurt u if she gives the wrong answer. give it some time and see what happens, but don't act different toward her, see if the table turns, rushing will only push her away and make thing bad for the friendship. when it might seem like the right moment tell her exactly what u said in your question, how you feel. suicide is out of the question, think about it, how will she feel when she loses her friend, if u really care about ur friendship, you'll give it time even though it may be very hard, but you've waited this long. i hope everything turns out good for ya and wish u lots of luck and happiness.
2006-12-02 17:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably going to dump her boyfriend for you silly. Remember you were friends for years so don't start ignoring her now. She ran after you to explain something, you should have given her the chance. You're a good looking fella, so you know other women fancy you and it's not the end of the world. There are reasons for everything in this life, even if we don't see the reason right away. Stay cool and chill for a while. It'll all work itself out.
2006-12-01 07:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are still young yet, the hurt you feel just now will pass, and you should start dating other girls you could still be friends with the girl you're talking about and maybe in time she might start to feel the same for you, start by being friends first and build a relationship from there. All part of life Good Luck and don't think about suicide
2006-11-25 08:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get the girl on her own and ask her do you have a chance, if she is talking about her boyfriend though i would leave it. and find someone unattached, you may feel sad and down at the moment and think that this is the only girl for you but we have all been there and felt like that, the best thing to do is smarten yourself up new hairdo and clothes etc and go out with your friends and enjoy yourself the more you socialise there more chance of finding a nice girl who will be single and interested in you show this girl what she is missing, you owe it to yourself to find love and be treated nicely , good luck
2006-11-25 10:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh poor babes listen to me she aint worth your tears if she has been showing you she is interested in you while she has a boyfriend thats not right and if you did get with her and she was showing some other guy she was interested in him while she was with you then you would be heartbroken i know i have lots of experience in that department. It will get easier believe me just take it one day at a time and dont talk about taking your life thats just silly over a woman isnt it. Just forget her babes you can do so much better your worth so much more. Keep your chin up ok xxxx
2006-11-25 08:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up I tried the Ill commit suidcide way back in the fifties and it did not work then and wont now give that one a miss she is most likely a bit fat anyway There is a very nice sexy young thing just around the corner and she doent like cry babies. Man you have got it made
2006-11-25 09:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First this is a blip......it will pass.....and you have everything to live for.
She came out after you to communicate and explain I imagine. Maybe if you can give her the chance to explain she will.....and you could expalin also you were unaware she had a boyfriend etc...no hard feeling etc.
It is certainly not the end of the world. Communicate......
2006-11-26 10:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her right now..appologize and explain why you walked off..If she is a true friend she'll understand. Dont do anything rash like suicide..thats selfish and not gonna solve your problem. You need to talk to her and work things out.
Good luck
2006-11-25 08:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend then talk to her tell her how you feel,let her know that you will respect her decision,if she has a boyfriend and hes the one for her,im sorry but there really isn't anything you can do.hope it all turns out ok
2006-11-29 08:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sanday is an another day you will feel a little bit better and after few week you will forget her and find a very nice girl to love who deserve you
always remember rejcton is protection of GOD
sorry for my english i am italian
2006-11-25 08:33:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋