best boy friend changed?

Question

hi guys i really give a HUGE thanks if u read this and of course if u help me!so here it goes..I have a best friend and he's a boy so we share our secrets and stuff...i help him with his crushes and advices.But ever since he's with the girl he liked, we never talked to the phone or even texted like we used to..im so confused because he totally change..then i ask for advices from my girl friends and they said to ask him why he changed..so i did and we talked and he felt bad because he knew its his fault being selfish and stuff. and i forgive him and ever since that time, we're not like before anymore..and im expecting we'll be just like before but no. so what will i do NOW?!?!?!? help me!!waaah!thanks guys!note: he's still single

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a crush on him, but won't admit it. You say you're just friends, but you're jealous now that he has a girlfriend. If you are truly just friends, give him some space to be with her.

Answer 2

People will change when they get a significant other. I've seen it before. They pay attention now to their boyfriend or girlfriend because hormones are probably raging and that person is all their thinking about.

Guys, I'll never understand. All you can really do is give him some space and hope for the best.



Good luck.

Answer 3

This is the most common problem for all.

I'd say, this guy wanted some fun all along, and he used u up for that. Now that his task is accomplished, he's let go of u. May be if you wait, he'll come back to u. (if u really want him to). I'd suggest you get over him and look into other things really meaningful.

After all. how long is he going to be in the new mood... he'll anyway have to return.

Answer 4

If feel that a male & female can be friends for a period of time , as we share our feelings & other things which is our part of life , unknowing we fall in love as a reason they start changing or either his girlfriend would have worned him not to talk to u much. he too would hae felt bad that he is not able to share his talk like before . so u should talk to him.

Answer 5

I would say he really likes this girl and does not want her jealous.My boyfriends ex-wife called constantly , among other things and as a result , we broke up. Give him this time.And maybe you have more feelings then just friendship. Nevertheless. Stay low, if things between him and her do not work out, he will be back and you will be there as the friend you are and he will appreciate it.

Answer 6

Sounds like you wanted him all to yourself but didn't want a bf. Get over it and let him have fun with another girl who is willing to be more than "just friends" Be happy he has found someone, you had your chance and blew it. You will find someone tho someday just don't make the same mistake again.

Answer 7

u know we have d same problem tho wid diff reasons...i also had dis friend b4 and we had a misunderstanding..i was expecting dat after we've talked we wud go back to being friends but no...its been a year after we talked dat we became friends again..but not like before...and wid in dat 1 year,i met a new friend and he is also a guy...wat i suggest to u is juz go on wid ur lyf..u cannot bring back ur old friend.. wen u see him try very hard not to think bout wat happened to both of u en juz smile at him and casually say hi den go on...
wen he really lets go of u,let him go..u r not tied to dis person and it doesnt mean dat he hates u or he's bad or anything..it means dat ur 'story' is over...der r still oder people dat cud become ur friend...

Answer 8

How can he have a girlfriend and still hang out with you all the time? He can't and your the one being shelfish for being mad at him.

Answer 9

i think your jealous..you have a feeling of falling inlove with him..dont you?if he doesnt like to talk with you anymore..well only i can say..find other friends and meet other poeple...okey..
take care and god bless

Answer 10

His girlfriend may take it otherwise, so he keeps distance with you in her presence.