Do you believe in love? The feeling words cant describe.I had a baby by this man! We want to get married! I feel not whole with out him! sounds goos right? here the twist i'm 17 hes 24! We hve been together for 2 years! he at lest been to jail over 8 times because we cant see eachother! i've been to jail about 6 times! our baby has been takin ! hes in jail right now ! my life seems to be falling a part! i live in medford or .very small town.red neck town. I have 17 vyear old friend that have baby by older men to.ithink the problem is i'm white/native and hes black.This last time the cops put a gun to hes head.he wasn't doing anything.One of the cop said i soundnt be with a black man.i not from here i'm from atl.ga. this would of not been a problem there.please please help me ! i need advice.
2006-11-24 23:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by ~Native Solider~! 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sounds like your life is coming to an end before it even started. I would like to think things could have been a lot better but who knows maybe we are destined to be what we are and where we end up.
2006-11-25 00:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be having kids. Well, that can't be helped now, can it ? If the two of you are to have a chance, you need to move elsewhere. If you do that, you may find things work out BUT you may also find that your love is no longer 'forbidden' in your new home & so the excitement will be gone.
What concerns me most is all this talk of going to jail; this kind of thing cannot be best for your children. You should not have had kids when you were so young but now that you have, they should come first.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 08:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not because he's black. Its the law, and if your in a small town, they take their jobs 2x serious as city areas (in my opinion). People seem to stereotype us because we have been accused of mistreating white women (O.J.) but that's not the case. Color has nothing to do with it. I believe in love but love can blind you from reality. If he can't keep his hands off of you sexually and cant wait until marriage, then maybe its lust instead of love. If not that then think about the child you have. That baby needs both of you and you have to work something out in order to get your child back so you have to put the relationship on hold for your child's sake. Im sure you love this man with all your heart but love can wait. Get your life together and he should be doing the same.
2006-11-25 08:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by hardworkur84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were dating him for two years, than you have been sleeping with him since you were 15 and he was 22...that's rape.. now you brought a child into this world, with no parents.....when are you white girls going to learn....your nothing but a trophy to the black man there is no love ...just payback...I don't feel sorry for you or want to offer you any help...i feel sorry for your child and your parents....I f you have both been in jail, that's where you will prob. spend most of your life!!!!! good luck, your going to need it!
2006-11-25 08:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loser, and a child molester. Atlanta may have a larger and more substantial black community, and chances are that he wouldn't catch as much **** over being black, but he's still trash. I'm black, too, but I don't have his back because of it. You need to grow up.
2006-11-25 13:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by anita.revolution 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like trouble with a capital T
2006-11-25 07:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by John Scary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? Evidently they have been absent for waaayyy toooo long!!
2006-11-25 10:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋