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When i was a kid up to about 15 or so i was shy, but i was outgoing with people. I could make anyone laugh, and was entertaining to talk to. But as i've gotten older i'm no longer like that except when i'm in a really really good mood, or have had some alcohol. I dont drink much, and am rarely in a really really good mood to be able to let go, and be outgoing and entertaning to my family and friends. If i just be myself. most of the time i come off as being quiet and boring to be around. It's true that i haver never talked alot like some people do, but in my inner self i am not a boring person i just cant let go most of the times. This makes it hard to form friendships and relationships. The only time i can truly let go most of the time is when i know the person very very well, and am completely comfortable with them, and am not in a bad or depressed state of mind. Can you tell me how to be able to let go alot more often, even with people i just met or dont know that well. Thanks alot

2006-11-24 23:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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hey mate you answered you own question ,you feel relaxed and outgoing when you know some one,thats a good thing and if people see that then they will have to earn your friendship by getting to know you,as for boring you think to much ,be happy with yourself

2006-11-24 23:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by matty60 4 · 0 0

It’s a fact that as we grows up, our mind changes. So as our thoughts & way we act. What you are experiencing is such a change. You are feeling it because you are thinking it too much. Just make your mind free from all tensions. If you want to be like you mentioned, you can't become that so quickly. So you need to take a new start of your life. Start everything even relation with others with a new meaning. Life isn’t that bad. You just need to re-explore it.

2006-11-25 00:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by emmshazi 2 · 1 0

I feel your not exactly happy with your personality.so i would practice just like they teach you for a job inter view. I would practice those steps that they have for interviewing. Go to the Zoo, a restaurant, meat market and practice those easy steps that the .job.com does and guaranteed you'll became a interesting person cause you would be the one first to talk about yourself.

2006-11-25 00:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by hotheffner 1 · 0 0

I'm trying to be more outgoing with people i've just met but I'm not doing such a good job. Maybe you can, keep trying!

2006-11-25 00:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by moi 2 · 0 0

the 7 up had a logo "no one to impress & nothing to prove" try to take that on in ur social relationships, u'll find urself gradually getting out of the cocoon u built for urself.

2006-11-25 00:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 1 0

Be yourself. You don't sound boring to me ... just real.

2006-11-25 00:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sally 5 · 0 0

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