2006-11-24 23:29:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Married life is wonderful. Always knowing that someone is there if you have a crappy day. Being able to make love whenever you want to. Cuddling with the person you love. Doing house chores together. Getting the two of yours first animal. Having kids. It's amazing.
2006-11-24 23:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be good, but only if it's the right person.
As for me, things were find until we married then I found out he was an abusive SOB, aggressive,verbally abusive, and a control freak. He was also a deadbeat, refused to work. I worked while pregnant doing maid service at a local hotel just to put food on the table.
You never know how someone really will be until you marry them. Even living with someone doesn't mean you'll see their real side. Men especially can stay nice and sweet, but once there's a piece of paper involved they can get nasty and controling. Not to mention jealous.
Also, another thing you deal with when married is the fact some spouces get bored after a while. That's when the trouble really starts.
I'm widowed and have no plans on marrying again. Once was enough. If I get into another relationship, heck...living together is the way to go. That way you can kick the SOB out if he gets wierd.
2006-11-24 23:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Also, being married to one person means sharing a lot....sharing space and being partners. If both people view it as a partnership and understand that there will be ups and downs, and it won't all be good...and to agree to be "in" it for the long haul, no matter...its a good thing. There is too much divorce in this society though, because people run into one of the many hurdles of marriage, and they run to get a divorce instead of trying to work it out. So....I think marriage is a good thing because its a good feeling to have a partner in life.
2006-11-24 23:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by momofericha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on a lot of things.
If the person is a putz, then it's not good
If the person is a sweet, honest, caring person, it can be good.
Marriage is hard work that requires constant time and effort. People think that getting married is hard. Wanting to stay married is so much harder.
Good luck and make an informed decision.
2006-11-24 23:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the relationship to fill a need other than love and friendship. Good thing.
Are you in the relationship to fill the needs of money , sex(not love), or not to be alone. Bad thing.
2006-11-24 23:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by cctucker75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can make a good choice and you know you are not going to marry an angel you are going to marry human with his good and bad.and if you are person who respect his responsibility as well as his rights i think it will be good thing.
2006-11-24 23:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by a_samy189 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you arrive at the point where you are ready to make your partner your life partner and make them number one in your life, then it is a good thing.
Love, commitment and comprimise are all very important keys to a good marriage.
2006-11-24 23:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by dbowles53 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage in and of itself is a good thing..
There can be good & bad spouses which ruin a marriage...
2006-11-25 00:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing.
2006-11-24 23:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great! I've done it dozens of times. But I would recommend that it be done only very gradually and just a little a time until you can become accustomed to it. And for god's sake, don't let your wife know about it.
2006-11-25 00:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by john s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋