I just think love is weak and it disgusts me. I want to be alone the rest of my life with no one with me. I have never loved anyone, not even my parents. If some girl asked me out, I would just say no. I view everything as a battle, and I think being in love as losing a battle. I just want to hit everybody I see making out or holding hands.
2006-11-24 23:23:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would feel like yelling at a girl if she asked me out.
2006-11-24 23:25:07 · update #1
My dad's kinda like that. His goal in life is to be alone. Now he's 55, works 60 hours a week has no friends except my mom and comes home to an empty house every night to drink himself to sleep. Not a happy life. You should seriously reconsider your views. Everything is a battle but so is love. And in a battle you need as many people on your side as possible. Perhaps you hate love because you are jealous that no one loves you...you get what you put into it.
2006-11-25 00:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by AJ F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, there are many sick, incubated, etc., infants who, when not held, just die. That's weakness.
The ones whose parents or nurses hold them, have a much higher survival rate. And come out stronger for life.
You sound like one of those kids who was never held, and therefore can't handle the feeling of it. There is a syndrome for that, whatever they call it, and if it's not fixed before two years old, well..
You're stuck being miserable. You have way passed your critical period and I'm sorry. If that applies to you. There's no point going for help if that's the case. And because you said you never even loved your parents, I have a right mind to believe they're at the heart of this.
I'm right, you know. You're stuck being miserable. I've won this battle. Don't even try to argue with me... because if you don't believe me, then you are wrong. And no matter what you say to me, you lose.
Unless you turn your life around and prove me wrong.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 07:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is more powerful than you can ever imagine.
I hope you can come to see this in your lifetime because the experience is what your soul seeks. Life is only a battle if you make it so. There must be an underlying reason for your anger? something from your youth maybe?
Good luck to you in all things..
2006-11-25 07:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by *JC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone, but forever ?
If that's what you want then go ahead, but love isn't that bad. You'll have someone who's always there for you in your time of need and who's willing to share your joys and sorrows. But you'll have to do the same for them. Maybe that's what you're afraid of (or hate). You just don't want to be nice or do things for a girl, and want things done for you.
It's either that or your afraid to get hurt, to open up to someone and risk being hurt. But that's what love is, opening up to someone despite the risk of getting hurt.
2006-11-25 07:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey dude,
u must immediately go to see your family doctor. i am serious. i suspect the deep rooted childhood suppression problem with you.
however, i have read somewhere that ' anyone can win a battle by sheer love' Love is most beautiful thing which can't be described but one day you will feel! God bless you.
Cheers.
2006-11-25 07:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Novatna Dokic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got one small question - if you've never loved anyone, and never felt love, then how can you say you hate it, I mean you don't know what it is. Then how do you know you hate it? And don't you have friends, that's love also. If you don't give love a chance you'll be miserable, believe me, and lonely. Is that what you want? Love at least yourself
Peace
2006-11-25 07:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me tooo! But its becoz that i've had a bitter experience in my past. there might be something similar for u too! but i wud rather say that u are busines-minded and strong at heart. Not one of those emotional idiots. Its a good sign (in my opinion). Don't worry, u are not psychic or anything. Any two minds are not alike. u are one kind of person there might be many like us out there. Isn't it??
2006-11-25 07:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give love a moment of your time
love is not a battle between two minds
just discover more of yourself by falling in love
yes there is always pain in love but the memory that
come with it is what kept us strong as a human.
2006-11-25 07:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by kimht 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I believe you might be suffering from an antisocial personality disorder. Most human beings thrive on the contact with other human beings. Some don't. These people that don't are said to be suffering from an antisocial personality disorder. Please seek help from a professional.
2006-11-25 07:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by d2bcathie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you hate love. it is just because you know what you want. maybe its just that you haven't found the one you love. take it easy. you don't have to feel awful about that. take it at your own pace and don't force yourself. don't worry, you're not violence, you're just sceptical. nobody knows you better except yourself. have faith in yourself. and don't hit others.
everyone has different characteristic. you're just not comfortable with those you have encountered? no problem. leave them. cool down, find out what is your interest and go for it.
2006-11-25 07:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by I am marrying her only. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋